A dating decision must be made, need advise (flamesuit on)

[red89notch]

I honestly have no idea why I'm asking you douchbags but I'm just looking for opinions/discussion on the matter.

Women/dating/relationships have never been my strong point. I am usually too nice. I am in a confusing situation that I want to figure out.

Back story: I am 24 and dated this 39 year old back in December. I was crazy about her but never let her know it. Tried to play it cool but I think I may have screwed up. We spent Christmas together at her sisters house in east Texas. She broke it off with me 3 days before New Years because of our age difference. New Years Eve she calls me while I am at work to tell me she has been talking to someone else the whole time and is now "seeing him." Asks me what party I'm attending and tells me where she is going. I was hurt and pissed off but very nice in our conversation. I was REALLY pissed off when she showed up with him at the party I was at. I was not expecting to see her and wasn't prepared to see her with another guy. Turns out she picked the biggest douche ever.

Now: They recently broke up because she realized what a POS he is. He literally went psycho writing emails to everyone badmouthing her and threatening her. After all this time I was pretty much over it. Just a couple weeks ago I met an AMAZING girl Im very interested in. We get along great, and I can make her laugh non-stop. The second night I spent out with the new girl I completely got this vibe of jealousy from first girl. Seemed like she kept trying to pull me away. Stepping in out of nowhere with "You wana go see my new car?" and trying to keep me outside away from everyone for as long as possible. First girl has been EXTRA friendly since, inviting me to concerts and hockey games etc. Part of me says she realizes she made a bad decision and that great. The other part says if I wasn't good enough for her before, then why am I now? Im not even sure if the new girl is interested in me as far as dating but I have to make a decision. We all run in the same circles and can't possibly chase both.

I am really into both women and don't know what to do. I always make the worst decision possible in cases such as these. I chase the wrong one and end up alone time and time again.

[talisman]

Abandon ship with the 39 yr old, IMMEDIATELY, regardless of the second girl.

[JC316]

Abandon ship with the 39 yr old, IMMEDIATELY, regardless of the second girl.

+1. Run away from her. She screwed you over once, she will do it again.

[Captain Crawfish]

my advice is dont take any advice from this site. flip a coin but i guarantee you the 39 yr old is better in the sack

[stevo]

Where is the "you are gay for having to ask for relationship advice on an internet forum" choice?

Stevo

[junior]

Run rabbit run - from the 39yr old

[ethic1]

but there is a reason she is 39 and has not found anyone.....

[red89notch]

Where is the "you are gay for having to ask for relationship advice on an internet forum" choice?

Stevo

You see why I said ,"I honestly have no idea why I'm asking you douchbags"

[no4njnk]

How are we supposed to make a decision without pics?

Agreed about the 39 year old

[stevo]

You see why I said ,"I honestly have no idea why I'm asking you douchbags"

And yet you did.

Stevo

[YALE]

Lose the first one like socks in the dryer.

[red89notch]

How are we supposed to make a decision without pics?

Agreed about the 39 year old

Pics will not be shown, they are both equally hot, petite women. Both have GREAT bodies. Both really cute. Both also divorced. 39 year old married for 10 years, 31 year old married for 3.

[D. Lil]

Abandon ship with the 39 yr old, IMMEDIATELY, regardless of the second girl.

This. 39 yr old doesn't sound very trustworthy and if she does still look attractive she probably only has about 5 of those years left. Dipset.

[Bassics]

Let's see, you did everything you could to handle the relationship right, you believed what she told you, and then can't figure out what went wrong.

I'd say you dove into the marraige category without knowing it and now have evidence that somehow she was stringing you along.

Sounds like you beta tested the freeware long enough to know it needed to go to the curb, and your only question is "WTF?" Don't sweat it, consider it something that her previous partners figured out long before you did and consider her good material to skullfuck on video and post here.

Be sure and capture the swinging boob action, I hate revenge vids that aren't worth fapping to.

And if said cunt has no swinging boob action then hell, you just discovered the issue. Or at least one of them. And if you have no vids to post of said skullfuckery with swinging boob action, then you are the fail in the relationship.

Welcome to being a man.

[Taylor]

#1, why are you dating old, divorced broads? They have so much baggage it isn't even funny.

#2, please, for your own sanity, lose the 39 y/o's number with a quickness and maybe even take a break from that whole scene you're in.

#3, try finding friends around your age, that aren't married/divorced and take it from there. Just my .02.

edit... And you said you have been hanging out with this chick on several occasions and you aren't sure if she's digging you? I'm afraid you're already in the 'friend zone'. Cut bait and move on. Re-read #3.