How long do you think you should wait ?

[Gasser64]

How long should you wait?

Live together for 5 years before you even think about getting married. Fuck what anybody and everybody thinks about it. Then after 5 years, you're probably good to go on the marriage thing. But I don't really see being "married" as something necessary. After all, what is it? Something to make the woman feel ok?

[Sleeper]

It will be a cold day in hell if I ever get married for a second time. I like being married and I like my wife, but if I ever get divorced I'm not doing this again.

This right here, i will say being married makes you work harder at it vs just saying fuck this in the hard times.

Still jerking off aint that bad and i have or had enough game to pull some from time to.time.if needed

[AnthonyS]

It will be a cold day in hell if I ever get married for a second time. I like being married and I like my wife, but if I ever get divorced I'm not doing this again.

Took me two times to learn this lesson.... I'm sure you're all surprised.

But this is the only correct answer.

[AnthonyS]

Tell him to do blow and fuck bitches!

It's cheaper than marriage and you pay up front.

[beefed88]

Can someone please explain the psychology of someone getting divorced then immediately wanting to get married again. It seems to happen to a large amount of people. Are they just pussies that don't want to be lonely?

[Sgt Beavis]

IMO getting married a too quickly, a 2nd time, is a good way to get a 2nd divorce. Give yourself a good year or two to mentally sort out everything. Also, give yourself time to enjoy being single again like the other guys have suggested.

I've been married 23 years and I think everyone will agree that a successful marriage is a LOT OF WORK. Take a break and sort out what kind of work that is and make sure you're ready to make a commitment to that work as much as you are ready to commit to another lady.

Drive your crazy wife more insane by finding BOTH joy (which is long lasting) and Happiness.

I know I don't know you personally, but I sincerely wish the best for you man.

[4EyedTurd]

It's the euphoric "in love" phase, where you're learning about each other and fucking like rabbits stage. Everybody comes down from it and the work begins.

[Sgt Beavis]

Can someone please explain the psychology of someone getting divorced then immediately wanting to get married again. It seems to happen to a large amount of people. Are they just pussies that don't want to be lonely?

Pussies? That's just childish talk. Loneliness can be a powerful thing. Especially if you've been with the same person for years. I know a few people that have married multiple times and I think loneliness played a bit role in their mistakes. Self esteem is another factor. I think some folks are also really wounded after a bad break up and will latch onto anyone that gives them some support.

[Chas_svo]

Can someone please explain the psychology of someone getting divorced then immediately wanting to get married again. It seems to happen to a large amount of people. Are they just pussies that don't want to be lonely?

Codependence.

[Gasser64]

Can someone please explain the psychology of someone getting divorced then immediately wanting to get married again. It seems to happen to a large amount of people. Are they just pussies that don't want to be lonely?

Blind, naked stupidity. Only possible explanation. You can get a gf/bf immediately without the need to dive off headlong into another life-destroying decision

[Big Dad]

Couple other small bits of information .

She is broke , just filed bankruptcy and just got divorce from her husband too.

Saaaawwwweeeeettt !

[ELVIS]

Couple other small bits of information .

She is broke , just filed bankruptcy and just got divorce from her husband too.

Saaaawwwweeeeettt !

she sees a meal ticket in your homie. this wont end well for the guy.

god bless.

[Big Dad]

well, told him to move slow but, he didn't

and, I don't think she is deceitful, just dumb too

[svauto-erotic855]

Couple other small bits of information .

She is broke , just filed bankruptcy and just got divorce from her husband too.

Saaaawwwweeeeettt !

If the women's name is Bobby Joe aka BJ send me a PM with the guys number so I can rescue him.

[Big Dad]

Ha, no its going on up here in the great plains