God give me strength....

[Strychnine]

You shoulda froat punched her a long time ago, Kim.

[talisman]

Sorry, but it's not your problem. Box up the toys and give them to her when she asks for it.

A little advice. You can't live with nutjobs, whether they are family or friends or whatever. Save yourself the hassle and let them leave peacefully - and be glad they're gone. You have enough problems without trying to solve hers.

BINGO.

Is this the sister that passed out face first on Jareds lawn at Halloween? If so, you should hear the message I was leaving Danny as Jared tried to throw her over his shoulder. It will cheer you up.

[Zfan]

How much would it cost to ship the little ones stuff back to her? My wife works for a company that ships stuff regularly, maybe I could get a deal. If you look into it yourself, let me know how much. PM me.

[Nash B.]

How much would it cost to ship the little ones stuff back to her? My wife works for a company that ships stuff regularly, maybe I could get a deal. If you look into it yourself, let me know how much. PM me.

About $1.1 BILLION (that's 1.1 with 8 zeroes behind it)

[BULLET_DRIVER]

Doubt she can afford to move herself let alone her and her little girl. Just hold onto all the stuff and wait.

If you ship the stuff somewhere, they will just move and leave it somewhere. Then its all lost for good.

[MutherjuggZ]

How much would it cost to ship the little ones stuff back to her? My wife works for a company that ships stuff regularly, maybe I could get a deal. If you look into it yourself, let me know how much. PM me.

I'll do that! I mean she got a VW Barbie Car (motorized), a furreal pet that's an interractive pony, a barbie dream jet, clothes, shoes, toybox full of dolls, all her hair things, hell she left the school transfer papers, birth certificates, home pc, all their movies and games... I mean she left fucking EVERYTHING jsut because saying goodbye was too difficult.

I know it's not my problem, but I can't stop it from being my heartache. Hearing Sarah Beth cry uncontrollably the night before they disappeared will haunt me forever. My sister left and didn't go by anyone's house so they could say goodbye to Sarah or vice versa. I'm not even trying to fight with her or argue, she just doesn't want to see my face because she knows it'll be a face full of disappointment.

To top it all off, right before I asked her when she was going back (which started this whole damn thing, and I'm still confused as to how she is so furious that she would slip away without saying goodbye to ANYONE) She let the hubby deposit is tax return into the joint account, spent a shit ton of it, told him I stole it and put him on the phone with my mom screaming and yelling. WHY mom? Who the fuck knows... you wanna say I did it, you put that mother fucker on the phone with ME..... AFTER I'm done with YOU.


I think deep down she needed to create some sort of shit storm large enough to give herself no other option but to go back to him. That way if it doesn't workout AGAIN, it'll be our fault she left and not her own damn stupidity.

My fear is sending all this to Sarah, just for Christy to ditch it the next time she moves which I KNOW she'll do.

I may save some of her favorite favorites, ship some that MIGHT be on the keep list, and find a good needy family that could use the rest I just don't know what to do.

Christy wouldn't even let her play with the VW Bug she got for Christmas. As soon as I got home I'd grab her, the car, and head outside for some vw dodging from hell LMAO! That lil toot can DRIVE! Just like Aunt Kim!

She only got to play with the things she received since arriving here because I would do the stuff with her. If it required any parental supervision or interraction, it was OFF limits by Christy.

Do I send all of these meaningfully donated items to a girl who can look but not touch until mom leaves it behind ont he next move... or do I find someone who could REALLY use the stuff?

[kingjason]

My EX wife had this kind of sister/husband. Always some new tradgedy and life problems that were not their fault. They would ask for hand outs every year, then when income tax rolled in her hubby was always buying some bullshit and never putting the money back. I hosted Christmass one year when they were in Texas and they were showered in gifts, my house got totally fucked up, and not one damn thank you or see ya later. I told my ex that was it, I never wanted to see her WT ass again or here her talking to her. People like that never ever get it. They also left everything they were given, furniture, appliances, clothes, toys, etc for their damn five kids and all. All they could do was breed and leech and I can not stand people like that. Family or not cut the damn ties..............................

[MutherjuggZ]

BINGO.

Is this the sister that passed out face first on Jareds lawn at Halloween? If so, you should hear the message I was leaving Danny as Jared tried to throw her over his shoulder. It will cheer you up.

Yessir, that is my one and only sibling. I was to hear that message!!! I hope it's been archived as one of the new dfwmustangs finest moments caught on film or voicemail


I don't want y'all to think that during all this I put her shit before myself or my children, this was all in addition to my normal role. The only thing that I didn't have to do while she was here, that I normally did myself, was pickup the kids from school. She took that one step out of my routine for me, but added about 80.

I'm relieved SHE is gone, but will always resent what she's done and continues to do to my baby girl, and my family. Grrrrrrrr

[46Tbird]

... I'm still confused as to how she is so furious that she would slip away without saying goodbye to ANYONE) She let the hubby deposit is tax return into the joint account, spent a shit ton of it, told him I stole it and put him on the phone with my mom screaming and yelling.

She's gotten herself into a bad situation and doesn't have valid reasons for doing so. She is lashing out in frustration and fabricating lies to keep scrutiny off the decisions she has made. She's in denial about the life she has created for herself and her family and doesn't have any means for venting her frustration except to create havoc for everyone involved.

C'mon Kim... you've had 2yr old kids before. You know how they act, so you know when your sister is being one. Be glad she's gone. You can't do anything for your niece except try to support your sister. You've already done your part, now let the rest of the story unfold.

[Snatch Napkin]

She's gotten herself into a bad situation and doesn't have valid reasons for doing so. She is lashing out in frustration and fabricating lies to keep scrutiny off the decisions she has made. She's in denial about the life she has created for herself and her family and doesn't have any means for venting her frustration except to create havoc for everyone involved.

C'mon Kim... you've had 2yr old kids before. You know how they act, so you know when your sister is being one. Be glad she's gone. You can't do anything for your niece except try to support your sister. You've already done your part, now let the rest of the story unfold.

Damn, man. Your logic on this is spot fucking on. Can you be any more perfect with your responses in this thread?

I'm getting a drink. Would you like one? It's on me.

[Thehead]

STOP over thinking it. Your sis is one messed up woman(in the head), and you don't need any of this. Just let it go for a couple of days and see what happens. Quit trying to figure it all out and just let it be. The bitch is obviously crazy, and pushing to get answers isn't going to do any good until she decides, if ever, that she wants to give them. Heavy hearts are hard to deal with but yours is big too, so just love your kids, have a couple stiff drinks and wake up tomorrow knowing you did ALL YOU could do.

[Taylor]

Sorry to hear this

Sounds like your sister needs some serious counseling + medication imo. I feel for the niece

[Stunter Bob]

I don't know how you do this Kim, you are truly one amazing woman and one day all of your good karma will come back to you!

[MutherjuggZ]

My EX wife had this kind of sister/husband. Always some new tradgedy and life problems that were not their fault. They would ask for hand outs every year, then when income tax rolled in her hubby was always buying some bullshit and never putting the money back. I hosted Christmass one year when they were in Texas and they were showered in gifts, my house got totally fucked up, and not one damn thank you or see ya later. I told my ex that was it, I never wanted to see her WT ass again or here her talking to her. People like that never ever get it. They also left everything they were given, furniture, appliances, clothes, toys, etc for their damn five kids and all. All they could do was breed and leech and I can not stand people like that. Family or not cut the damn ties..............................

I'm not considering paying a damn dime to ship anything right now. My mom wants prices so I'll get some numbers together but I'm DONE paying anything for that damn sucubus.

The minute income tax rolled in she apparently started her exit strategy, even though she owes all of us money. I've gone nuts and spent as much as $1800 at one time... but that's the most I've ever splurged and that was a few years ago.


Now for the biggest thing that I am weighed with on my heart that has kept me away from friends and work, and on the road between doctors over the past few weeks........This year my 9 year old has been stricken with illness, the asthmatic child mentioned earlier. I have the hospital bill for my son still adding up that is going to be somewhere in the ballpark of $2800-$3200 IF they decide to give me a break on the rate. At least I have the money coming to my savings account so I can pay. This is a pre-pay thing, so I am quite thankful I had so much coming back to me. Y'all hold some prayers up there for me on that too please! Hence the other heavily weighted side to my stress coin.


As a result... DUH, I will not be going to Las Vegas this year. I have canceled everything already but if a miracle occurs between now and may I'll let y'all know

[46Tbird]

Damn, man. Your logic on this is spot fucking on. Can you be any more perfect with your responses in this thread?

I'm getting a drink. Would you like one? It's on me.

Sure! Where?