Women: the choices we struggle to make as men.

[Silverback]

Don't know how to word this without it sounding bad but...

A lot of women are indeed willing to do things that will approve their physical appearance. All women like to look good. You may be able to talk her into that boob job, or that nose job, or that botox or whatever it is that you deem could use a little help. After that, she may well better measure up to your standards for looks. It sounds bad, but its really not. We all have a thing or two we'd change.

don't listen to this guy...

You NEVER "talk a woman into" anything about her appearance. You let her bring it up, and you support HER decision.

You bring it up, and she'll let you pay for the procedure, then dump your ass for being petty.

[Scott Mc]

LMFAO! extreme case there. I am 36 as well so you get where I am coming from.

Just the facts lol. I have straight up gone to the bathroom on a date and never come back.

That is fuckin hilarious.

The story of my life lol. She is a throwdown chick, it just makes me feel weird like I am doing something wrong.

[Sean88gt]

If she's filthy, some points should be given.

[90MarkVII]

Sounds to me you have a keeper.
My advice is to delete this thread.
That is, unless you don't think your wife (if you marry her) would mind too much that you had told the whole internet that she blows you in parking lots.

NOT being a prude, mind you. But she may not bee too appreciative.

[mstng86]

Sounds to me you have a keeper.
My advice is to delete this thread.
That is, unless you don't think your wife (if you marry her) would mind too much that you had told the whole internet that she blows you in parking lots.

NOT being a prude, mind you. But she may not bee too appreciative.

All wives blow their husbands in parking lots.



Honestly, all women have some baggage, and frankly so do we. The hottest ones usually have the more issues. Sometimes finding a happy medium is your best bet.

[helosailor]

don't listen to this guy...

You NEVER "talk a woman into" anything about her appearance. You let her bring it up, and you support HER decision.

You bring it up, and she'll let you pay for the procedure, then dump your ass for being petty.

Every word of this.

[quikag]

Selfish and prideful assholes rarely get what they want from life.

[inline 6]

She ain't never gonna see this and to be honest if she did and it ran her off, oh well.

I really don't feel like I will ever love another woman again besides my mother. I feel no shame in that either it's just not something I desire to do. I would however like the company and the perks that come with living with someone who handles their end of the bargain.

To the other questions, she is lower 6 figures, I dunno if she consideres herself settling for me but she wants to sell her house which she owns outright and move in with me. She dosent need a boob job or anything cosmetic really. I told her upfront that im not getting married again and if she moves in to get a storage and put her stuff in there as I don't want her to go back to square 1 if it's not working out. Hell I told her not to sell her house but she said she has no attachment to it, wants to sell it while the market is hot, and she had been considering anyways for a change of scenery. She's a great women I'm just hung up on some superficial things that aren't really big or major issues to start with and I'm either going to get over them or I'm not. I've been back and forth about it for 2 years now though.

Funny story about telling people to change themselves though..... I dated a 24yo for about 4 months while me and the other were on a break at one point. She had the most bangin body with a perfect bubble butt and a gap that would make you cry but she was flat chested af. While drinking one evening I mentioned that I enjoy a good titty fucking from time to time and that set in motion a series of events that led to her getting a boob job within the next 2-3 weeks after that. She financed it and after they were good enough to go I abused them throughly, got tired of it, and moved on. She still to this day sends me these 2 paragraph sappy txt that I don't even read.

Pretty shitty I know.

[sosoe]

Man, I wont lie ive pondered the same and im only 28-

I bring so much to the table for someone my age, its hard to try to find a female to bring the same..
Lol

[svauto-erotic855]

Years ago I was told by a gal that I was dumping that I would die alone in a house full of guns, car parts, and cars if I did not change my views of women and dating. So far so good and it is a safe bet to say that I get more pussy then an average 3 to 4 guys combined.

Edit: When she said that I think she meant it as an insult but it inspired me to be the pussy hound that I am today.

[Cooter]

I get what he is saying. Dating at, well my age of 36 is difficult. Often it is like choosing from broken toys(not saying I am perfect). It is a whole lot more common for men to have their shit together and not have baggage then women. I went out last week with a girl that had all her shit together, badass career, same interests, honestly a cute girl, but 4'11". My stupid brain recognizes that she may carry dwarfism in her DNA a little bit and is messing with me bad. I am not going to let it make me stop seeing her but logically I should have no issue because currently neither of us want kids.

that's because men lose their baggage in the divorce proceedings!!! LOL

[CJ-95GT]

You can't get a 10 so you're settling for a 5. Get your shit together and find what you want. Why get a V6 when you want a GT knowing you will regret it down the line.

[inline 6]

You can't get a 10 so you're settling for a 5. Get your shit together and find what you want. Why get a V6 when you want a GT knowing you will regret it down the line.

I don't have unrealistic expectations for what I can achieve. I'm not looking for 10's, maybe for a night or two but not for the long haul. I can't stand super high maintenance women. I like them to take care of themselves but not to the point of being so self absorbed that they think of guys as more of an accessory than a significant other.

[CJ-95GT]

It doesn't matter what you want or how you want to rate them. Just don't settle. You either want it completely or you don't. It's not fair to the other person if they are all in.

[Roscoe]

Sounds like you've already got the keeper...