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Women: the choices we struggle to make as men.
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I started young and went with the hot scale and had a few common interests. A relationship is pretty stressful, there were plenty of times something that was common sense would blow her mind, but as you grow together you realize you are making the same decisions that you both want (for the major issues that affect BOTH of you) and less an uneven relationship. Wifey was 19 I was 21, I'm now 31
Now that I'm older I see some of those hot scale women that were always tossed aside for their stupid shit and you can barely tolerate a conversation with them. It's literally like some of these women were raised by social media and tmz where the world revolves around their actions and social media updates. They can't cook, clean, and whine about every fucking thing
I may glance at other women but damn I love my wife. It was the best six years I've invested in something because we both think the same way in general, when we're not being selfish about little things
You know the right answer. You may think you can fuck hotter, but for the rest of your life youd be dealing with a snotty immuture woman who resents you not treating her like Cinderella
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There is no perfect woman, and you aren't perfect yourself, a relationship worth having takes work and sacrifice, yet is proportionately rewarding.
FWIW I was 36 when I met my wife, and though not a unicorn by some's standards, she's hot enough for me, and pretty well rounded in most respects. It was worth the wait.
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Originally posted by Big A View PostThere is no perfect woman, and you aren't perfect yourself, a relationship worth having takes work and sacrifice, yet is proportionately rewarding.
FWIW I was 36 when I met my wife, and though not a unicorn by some's standards, she's hot enough for me, and pretty well rounded in most respects. It was worth the wait.
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Are we talking high 6 figures or just barely into 6 figures?
All kidding aside, I agree with most above. Looks are a small part of the equation. Yeah, there has to be some sort of a physical attraction and you've obviously got that or you wouldn't still be dating her 2 years later.
Finding a woman with her shit together is huge. I was married for 11 years and then divorced when I was 34. At 35, I dated a 20 year old. It didn't last long. I couldn't raise my spouse. She brought virtually nothing to the table but youthful energy. I wasn't willing to wait around and see when she would finally grow up.
Any idea if the woman you're dating is having similar thoughts as you? Does she ask all of her friends if she should 'settle' for you?
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If she enjoys giving blowjobs in a parking lot, keep her. Don't have to marry her or anything. Just see how long those parking lot blowjobs keep up and go from there.Originally posted by MR EDDU defend him who use's racial slurs like hes drinking water.
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Don't know how to word this without it sounding bad but...
A lot of women are indeed willing to do things that will approve their physical appearance. All women like to look good. You may be able to talk her into that boob job, or that nose job, or that botox or whatever it is that you deem could use a little help. After that, she may well better measure up to your standards for looks. It sounds bad, but its really not. We all have a thing or two we'd change.WH
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