VA Disability Question

[Chili]

I dont think we agree on that. If you have a kid, you have a share in making sure that your kid is provided for. If you and the kids other parent arent together, you then owe child support to the parent that has guardianship. They are the one paying for food, clothing, housing, etc. Not the kid. It's not allowance.

We actually don't disagree.. I agree with you 100% in principle, it's the intent of the law that doesn't (again, at least in some states).

Unfortunately I have been on all sides of this in my life. A child who received support, a parent who paid support, and a parent who received support.

[Baron Von Crowder]

We actually don't disagree.. I agree with you 100% in principle, it's the intent of the law that doesn't (again, at least in some states).

Unfortunately I have been on all sides of this in my life. A child who received support, a parent who paid support, and a parent who received support.

a bit of unknown info:

When I was 16, my dad and his wife split. I couldn't live with my mom since I had a protective order against her husband from when he beat the shit out of me when I was 10. My dad disappeared, I ended up with no place to go, and Chad's parents took me in. In my father's divorce hearing (that he didnt show up to) the judge pulled me into chambers to talk about what my options were. The bottom line was I had to either petition for emancipation, or go to cps custody. I told her I was going to petition for emancipation, and she threw me a couple bones, so to speak, in their divorce agreement. Since my dad didnt ever surface, I took what was left of his company assets, and the couple of vehicles, and sold them to cover my cost of living.

It was a goddamn mess, to say the least.

[Chili]

a bit of unknown info:

When I was 16, my dad and his wife split. I couldn't live with my mom since I had a protective order against her husband from when he beat the shit out of me when I was 10. My dad disappeared, I ended up with no place to go, and Chad's parents took me in. In my father's divorce hearing (that he didnt show up to) the judge pulled me into chambers to talk about what my options were. The bottom line was I had to either petition for emancipation, or go to cps custody. I told her I was going to petition for emancipation, and she threw me a couple bones, so to speak, in their divorce agreement. Since my dad didnt ever surface, I took what was left of his company assets, and the couple of vehicles, and sold them to cover my cost of living.

It was a goddamn mess, to say the least.

I could imagine! I knew about ending up with Chad, and why, but not the rest. I wouldn't wish shit like that on any kid.

[Forever_frost]

Is there anyone on here getting any disability from the VA, if so how do you get your money? Check, loaded to a Prepaid visa or does it have to be direct deposited into a bank account? This is not for me personally, just trying to figure something out about the birth giver.

Sorry, I've been out of pocket, the 4th was my "I'm dead" anniversary. It's direct deposit to my account. No muss, no fuss. They don't do paper checks any longer and I don't think they give you an option to do anything else. They like to know that it goes into a checking account that way they can seize control of things if they think you're mentally unstable.

[Forever_frost]

My sons bio mom. She hasn't paid any child support pretty much the whole time my son grew up. She gets VA disability, but the child support office say they cannot touch it. She does have warrants for her arrest for not paying (only took a decade of bitching).
I am wanting to know what kind of paper trail is leading to her so hopefully one day I could get some money out of her. My son is 19 and off at college and I would love to be able to give him the money so he could focus more on school.

http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/css/resource/income-withholding-and-veterans-benefits

[Forever_frost]

They'd have to get my shrink to sign off on it and that's not happening. I'm crazy but I'm damned good with money and that's what matters.

[coley]

Thank you Frost

[Forever_frost]

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