How do you tell your significant other.....

[Sean88gt]

It happens. Just need to figure out if you can overcome it, want to overcome it, or if it's done.

[Bad Religion]

What does her sister look like?

[4bangen]

Have you tried fucking her? It will help.

I've found the longer my wife and I go without, the crappier our attitudes get. with our jobs, kid, and other stuff going on all the time we've found we have to make time to get biblical. When we do we find that everything just looks a bit sunnier. I learned this lesson a bit to late with the ex. We once went six months without sex. Well I went that long. I'm fairly sure she didn't. But that's a whole other topic.
I've been with my second wife for eight years now and still get "cravings" to see her about half way through the day nearly every day. Leaving my first wife was pretty much the smartest thing I ever did second only to marrying my second wife. Mark my words, the only way she's getting rid of me is with a bullet, and I've already told her that if she does, I'm gonna haunt her ass.
If you think there's a chance to save things than at least try. If she's not a cheater, or mentally f-ed up, than at least see if there's anything left.

Good luck man, if you need to vent, or talk to someone with experience in these matters (sadly I do) hit me up.

[Roscoe]

I've been married 18 years and have seen some pretty trying times as well. Others have said it, but a counselor will work as well as you both want it to. It's up to you both to decide if you want to make it work, because a good marriage is a LOT of work...

Best of luck to you and your family.

[dsrtuckteezy]

what was your original screen name? good luck in whatever you decide

[Tremor14]

I_Want_An_LS1

fuck him. douche bag #1

[Rick Modena]

I_Want_An_LS1

lol.

[71chevellejohn]

TL;DR

Post her number. I'll tell her.

[SMKR]

Kill her, only reasonable solution

[Stephen]

what was your original screen name? good luck in whatever you decide

x2 for no reason really though just curious if I remember you

[Doug Hatton]

Did I miss the age of the kid?

[4EyedTurd]

Nut up, you made her a promise years ago that you'd stick with her thru thick and thin. There's plenty of other shit to try to spice it up, keep trying. If my marriage fails it won't be because of me not trying.

Edit: unless she's cheating

[abecx]

I agree, I just think of Denny's wife when she was 18

[mstng86]

Good luck with whatever you do OP. Sounds like there is a lot of experience and advice chiming in.

We have been married 7 years now and there has been rough times throughout.

I tend to keep track or pay close attention to the ebbs and flows of our relationship. I have come to the conclusion our happiness is closely related to our money situation. It completely stresses both of us out and we take it out on each other. But like most things, that is a cyclical issue.

Also, that red river cycle comes around and every hurtful thing she says in that time period runs off my back.

[TRAILBLAZER]

It's not you, it's me ..