My entire outlay every month to pay for everything my household uses/consumes is $3,800.
Is that total monthly cash outflow for the household, or just mortgage, food, utilities? That's damn good if that's total outflow.
Originally posted by davbrucas
I want to like Slow99 since people I know say he's a good guy, but just about everything he posts is condescending and passive aggressive.
Most people I talk to have nothing but good things to say about you, but you sure come across as a condescending prick. Do you have an inferiority complex you've attempted to overcome through overachievement? Or were you fondled as a child?
You and slow99 should date. You both have passive aggressiveness down pat.
It probably costs us ~$200 a month to raise an almost 7 month old.
When my son was little, he cost exponentially more than that, and that was 13 years ago. $200/mo barely covers diapers and food. Your numbers are extremely flawed.
I'm not saying it costs $4500/mo to raise kids. That is absurd. I did however read somewhere that the national average in daycare is around $18-20,000, and that's for one kid.
Originally posted by BradM
But, just like condoms and women's rights, I don't believe in them.
When my son was little, he cost exponentially more than that, and that was 13 years ago. $200/mo barely covers diapers and food. Your numbers are extremely flawed.
Depends on if its the first or second kid.
Our youngest is getting it in the shorts on new stuff. I am not sure we have spent $100 on clothes, toys or anything else really in his 29 months.
When my son was little, he cost exponentially more than that, and that was 13 years ago. $200/mo barely covers diapers and food. Your numbers are extremely flawed.
I'm not saying it costs $4500/mo to raise kids. That is absurd. I did however read somewhere that the national average in daycare is around $18-20,000, and that's for one kid.
My boys are 4 years apart. They were only together at daycare for one spring. My wife is a teacher, so they don't go to daycare year round. For the spring they were there together, it was like $580 per week for the two of them. We had to provide the diapers and formula too. Kids are super expensive, and while it gets a little better when they start school, you pick up other costs too. Before long, they're driving...
My entire outlay every month to pay for everything my household uses/consumes is $3,800.
Man, that would be nice.
We would probably be fairly close-ish to that if it weren't for the $600/month in daycare for my step son, and the child support I pay my ex for my son.
My boys are 4 years apart. They were only together at daycare for one spring. My wife is a teacher, so they don't go to daycare year round. For the spring they were there together, it was like $580 per week for the two of them. We had to provide the diapers and formula too. Kids are super expensive, and while it gets a little better when they start school, you pick up other costs too. Before long, they're driving...
Oh yeah. You've got sports and then the other organized activities like dance, cheer, gymnastics, etc for girls. Baseball is a money pit, for instance. My son left baseball and went back to soccer, which is less costly. But he's also in football, and most recently, he has started racing motocross. It costs me an average of $300 every race he participates in with entry fees, license fees, fuel, food, and damages/repairs. It can get insane. I don't know how some of these parents do it. The well to do parents, who get them a new race bike and a new practice bike every year, etc. The ones with $250,000 RV/Toy haulers, etc.
Originally posted by BradM
But, just like condoms and women's rights, I don't believe in them.
Is that total monthly cash outflow for the household, or just mortgage, food, utilities? That's damn good if that's total outflow.
That is pretty much everything except pre tax cost of insurance. The wife has some income and she tends to pay for some frills for the kids and her but those aren't really a necessity. A pedicure isn't a life or death purchase. I tend to judge my progress by how much my net worth improves every month so I run a tight ship with low debt and low waste.
Originally posted by racrguy
What's your beef with NPR, because their listeners are typically more informed than others?
Originally posted by racrguy
Voting is a constitutional right, overthrowing the government isn't.
Oh yeah. You've got sports and then the other organized activities like dance, cheer, gymnastics, etc for girls. Baseball is a money pit, for instance. My son left baseball and went back to soccer, which is less costly. But he's also in football, and most recently, he has started racing motocross. It costs me an average of $300 every race he participates in with entry fees, license fees, fuel, food, and damages/repairs. It can get insane. I don't know how some of these parents do it. The well to do parents, who get them a new race bike and a new practice bike every year, etc. The ones with $250,000 RV/Toy haulers, etc.
You should see the money spent at Go kart races. $3,000 to RENT a motor for your 9 y/o son for the weekend? No problem I'll take two......
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