Pretty sure I'm headed through the big D and don't mean Dallas

[TeeShock]

I don't think she ever considered what her new reality would be without me... As I re-read that, I see how cocky that sounds. But, She hasn't moved out cause she can't afford shit is the bottom line. Which is entirely her choice. She can do what the rest of us do and get jobs that pay the fucking bills even though it's not our dream job... I don't think that's ever sunk in with her.

"Just like that, the journey is over. Depression is finished and you're on your way back to the world of the living, smiling, regular people. The road has been paved with dick-heads, back-stabbers, and pains in the fucking ass. But, memories were made, allies were had, pole-smokers were toppled, and the truth was discovered. And like any journey, if you stay the course long enough, the road might just show you what you need. All you got to do is keep your eyes on the road and you foot on the fucking gas. "

-KP

[Mysticcobrakilla]

I do not envy your position whatsoever, I've been there and WILL NOT be there again. Take control and don't look back.

[CexMashean]

I don't think she ever considered what her new reality would be without me... As I re-read that, I see how cocky that sounds. But, She hasn't moved out cause she can't afford shit is the bottom line. Which is entirely her choice. She can do what the rest of us do and get jobs that pay the fucking bills even though it's not our dream job... I don't think that's ever sunk in with her.

So, with that in mind, why hasn't she had a job already?

[bcoop]

Of course she never considered her new reality without you. Most women do not think ahead.

Tell her it doesn't fucking matter if she's sure. You are 100% sure it's over, and she needs to get out.

[davbrucas]

I'll never get married again.

Famous last words...

I've said them and I'm remarried. Happier this time but most all marriages start out happy.

[soap]

Dang!!! Sorry to here.

I was happy when I got married. But the happiest day of my life was getting divorced. Luckily we didn't have kids. I really like being single. I'll stick to Friends with benefits.

[davbrucas]

The actual fuck?!?!?!?!?



So she filed, gave me the petition, I had my lawyer look it over and fixed a few things then signed it and gave it back to her. We had 99% of everything agreed to, should be simple quick and easy. This was like 2 weeks ago, I could see the end in sight. I had prepared my mind for "ok, we are done, blah blah blah, I've accepted this is it and I'm ready to move on". I asked last night what the status was with her lawyer and she said she hasn't taken the papers to her yet. NOW she's not sure she wants a divorce. I want to fucking scream... TO FUCK MAN!



Now we are supposed to talk more tonight and figure this out, but I'm no longer sure I want to stay married...

Dude, hit the off switch in your heart and the NOS switch in your brain. Your marriage is over regardless of what either of you believe at this point. She wants out but hasn't made a solid plan yet. If she stays it's only to use you until she can figure out a way to leave painlessly.

[MattB]

Dang dude, sorry to hear! But yes, get her out of the house and get that shit final. You'll find new/more exciting pussy in no time, just don't marry them! Once it's all final, post-up, a GTG will be a must!

[ELVIS]

Dude, hit the off switch in your heart and the NOS switch in your brain. Your marriage is over regardless of what either of you believe at this point. She wants out but hasn't made a solid plan yet. If she stays it's only to use you until she can figure out a way to leave painlessly.

It won't be said any better than that man.

God bless.

[Cooter]

It won't be said any better than that man.

God bless.

agreed

[turboford]

Just finished mine all up. Going tomorrow to sign the papers for the house. I go the house and she got her Jeep. I Kept all property and assets. Yippeee

[racrguy]

agreed

Thirded!

[46Tbird]

gagreed

[90MarkVII]

Continue to walk away. Without looking back.

[Rick Modena]

Dude, hit the off switch in your heart and the NOS switch in your brain. Your marriage is over regardless of what either of you believe at this point. She wants out but hasn't made a solid plan yet. If she stays it's only to use you until she can figure out a way to leave painlessly.

No shit, fuck that bitch. Like someone else mentioned, the other dick done hit it and quit it. Or shes finding out how much shot really costs. Get out and don't look back...