Pretty sure I'm headed through the big D and don't mean Dallas

[bird_dog0347]

sooo.... it's a really long goddamn story and I'm not gonna share it all here right now, but my wife of almost 8 years (on 9/23) says she's not sure she wants to stay married. The short-short-extra-short version is that I upheld my end of the bargain and not so much for her.

FUCK... I soooooooooo want to tell the whole story but I've got 2 boys that are my primary focus. Nothing else matters. Either way, my world is upside down.... Let's just say that one day when it's all said and done I'll spill the beans, till then, just trust that I'm looking out for my boys first, me second, and me third.

I dunno why I'm even posting this other than getting advice from those who have been there. Those who have been here know how hard it is to even correctly spell words at this point, those who haven't.......... drink a 1/5th of whiskey and try to type to Yale's acceptance level. I got nothing, and I've literally said about .02% of the story to you guys but this is one of those rare circumstances where I'm the good guy here, and I realize how hard that is to believe.

fawk this sucks, and has for a while

[1carcrazyguy]

Best of luck and stay strong for the kids!

[Scott Mc]

Always keep your cool, record conversations, pull all your money and move property that is important to you. Try to leave as much emotion outnof it as possible, good luck man.

[Leah]

That sucks, man. I'm sorry. She's doing you a favor-if she isn't 'sure she wants to be married', then she sure as hell won't put in the work needed for a successful marriage. It doesn't seem like it now, but you'll be better off in the future. It's pretty damn tiring being the only one in the relationship who gives a damn. Sorry you're going through that.

[MattB]

Dang dude! Sorry to hear. Back to Wal Mart for her!!

[turboford]

Mine will be final any day now. I got the house and no spousal support. Good luck man.

[YALE]

Sorry, dude.

[Cobraman]

Fuck dude.

[Mike]

Lucky bastard

[talisman]

I'm sorry to hear that man. And just because it is common these days doesn't make it any easier to go though. Take this with a grain of salt, but if she isn't "sure" then maybe you should make up her mind for her. At the least she is being manipulative trying to get you to "win her back" as if you should have to win your wife back, at the worst, well... Get a good look at your assets and put some cash to the side. Talk to Brent about custody if things go fully south. Really sorry to hear it.

[Frank]

I'm sorry you are going through this. You are wise not to share too much and handle it like you are. I hope it works out in the best favor of everyone involved as difficult though it may be.

[Roscoe]

Sucks, man - sorry to hear.

[Milo]

Sorry to hear about this. A bunch of members here have gone thru this before including me. I don't have any legal advice.....well maybe u can use the lawyer my ex used,He's good. He got me very good...lol
Things will get easier with time. Don't do or say anything crazy where she can use it against you.
Your boys will always have a Daddy...... just stay involved in there lives.

[Baron Von Crowder]

man, that sucks. You have a good head on your shoulders, keep it up and everything should work out pretty well.

If you need anything hollar.

[Kyle]

I went through an entire situation with my wife and didn't post it on here. It can get sloppy and I would rethink having anything posted on this site about your marriage and or potential divorce.

If you need advice (personal, marriage, or otherwise), seek it from someone that is licensed and has the credentials to back it up.