Pretty sure I'm headed through the big D and don't mean Dallas

[dee]

Sorry for your luck. It is a rough and shitty road at times.

[IHaveAMustang]

Sorry to hear that. It hurts my soul when I hear of someone's spouse telling the person they married that they no longer love them. It just hurts.

I am at 7.5 years. Hopefully I'll beat the average.

[likeitfast55]

It sucks-------25 years for me. 5 years divorced, life is good.

It gets better every day now that the decision is made.

[dblack1]

Been there, keep your head up and don't get into a rebound too quickly.

I recently moved to a state where common law marriage isn't recognized and I will never tie the knot again. Divorce sucks, but it gets better, and it is easier if you have a good reason.

Take care of the kids and keep them happy during this difficult time.

[Leah]

One more thing: Just a piece of advice, and I'm sure you have already thought about it, but never talk badly about your wife in front of/to the kids. It's hard enough for them to go through it without feeling like they have to take sides. They're smart and will figure things out way faster than you think.

My ex is an asshole and has always used the kids to get back at me. He's talked very negatively about me TO the kids, has screamed at me in front of them when dropping off/picking up, and didn't cooperate with me at all but I have hid as much of it as I could from the kids. They figured him out long ago without my input. You'll come out of it with a healthier relationship with the kiddos and they will respect you much more.

Best of luck.

[Nate]

Best of luck. Going thru one myself.

[Baron Von Crowder]

Best of luck. Going thru one myself.

damn, sorry to hear that.

[greenbullitt]

Best of luck. Going thru one myself.

not to derail the op's thread, but im sorry

best of luck to you both. Nate, holla if you need anything

[Nate]

damn, sorry to hear that.

not to derail the op's thread, but im sorry

best of luck to you both. Nate, holla if you need anything

Thanks for the concern from both of you, it just flat out didn't work.

We separated in May and went on and off trying to work things out and it just didn't. Most cordial possible break up we could be going thru but man it sucks. Flat out just miss that best friend you tell everything and gets all the small inside jokes. Over all the short pain will be better with the long game as we will both be happier down the road.

Does suck buying shit you used to have...I mean I had to go buy plates, pots and pans, and still need a kitchen table (have a dining room table).

[greenbullitt]

Thanks for the concern from both of you, it just flat out didn't work.

We separated in May and went on and off trying to work things out and it just didn't. Most cordial possible break up we could be going thru but man it sucks. Flat out just miss that best friend you tell everything and gets all the small inside jokes. Over all the short pain will be better with the long game as we will both be happier down the road.

Does suck buying shit you used to have...I mean I had to go buy plates, pots and pans, and still need a kitchen table (have a dining room table).

come hang out at the shop sometime if ya want, brother

[Nate]

come hang out at the shop sometime if ya want, brother

Will do boss, need to bring the truck by soon for some work (AC, Window again....yes both).

We need to go shoot my kimber too.

[ELVIS]

nothing i can really add. most of the advice i could give is already here. best of luck to you. Nate, you as well.

god bless.

[Sean88gt]

Best of luck. Going thru one myself.

Damn man...sorry to hear that.

You too OP.

[greenbullitt]

Will do boss, need to bring the truck by soon for some work (AC, Window again....yes both).

We need to go shoot my kimber too.

sounds great buddy

[bcoop]

One more thing: Just a piece of advice, and I'm sure you have already thought about it, but never talk badly about your wife in front of/to the kids. It's hard enough for them to go through it without feeling like they have to take sides. They're smart and will figure things out way faster than you think.

My ex is an asshole and has always used the kids to get back at me. He's talked very negatively about me TO the kids, has screamed at me in front of them when dropping off/picking up, and didn't cooperate with me at all but I have hid as much of it as I could from the kids. They figured him out long ago without my input. You'll come out of it with a healthier relationship with the kiddos and they will respect you much more.

Best of luck.

This!!! Sorry to hear it, OP. More than happy to offer advice on the kids/custody end of things. Just shoot me a pm.



Really hate to hear that you're going through it as well, Nate. On the bright side, the thing you're going to need the most, you already have (an outlet).