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    Seattle, Wash. (CBS SEATTLE) – A U.S. Navy sailor from Washington State is currently serving on a submarine thousands of miles away in the Pacific Ocean, but a judge has ordered him into an impossible custody scenario: Appear in a Michigan courtroom Monday or risk losing custody of his 6-year-old daughter.

    Navy submariner Matthew Hindes was given permanent custody of his daughter Kaylee in 2010, after she was reportedly removed from the home of his ex-wife, Angela, by child protective services. But now a judge has ordered him to appear in court Monday, or risk losing his daughter to his ex-wife in addition to a bench warrant being issued for his arrest, ABC News reports.

    Hindes’ lawyers argue he should be protected by the Service Members Civil Relief Act, which states courts in custody cases may “grant a stay of proceedings for a minimum period of 90 days to defendants serving their country.”

    But the Michigan judge hearing the case, circuit court judge Margaret Noe, disagrees, stating: “If the child is not in the care and custody of the father, the child should be in the care and custody of the mother.”

    The judge reiterated that regardless of Hindes’ assignment under the Pacific Ocean, he will appear in court or face contempt of court.

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    Judge Noe denied the motion for a stay under the Service Members Relief Act, ruling that he could have arranged for his wife to bring the child to her mother, saying, “At this point, I don’t think I have any alternative but to enter a bench warrant for his arrest,” Noe said.

    Hindes is not allowed to appear by Skype or phone, and as with most custody cases, not being present in the courtroom often has a large impact on the outcome of the custody ruling.

    Hindes’ young daughter Kaylee is currently living with her step-mother in Washington State.

    “He’s protecting the rights of others, but who is protecting his rights?” said Hindes’ current wife and the child’s step-mother, Benita-Lynn. Six-year-old Kaylee has been living with Benita-Lynn in Washington State while Hindes is deployed aboard the nuclear submarine.

    “I’m just trying my best, to keep everything together,” a weeping Benita-Lynn told ABC News. “It’s just hard.”

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  • #2
    Hide the daughter until he can return.

    Fire the judge.

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    • #3
      That's some fucking bullshit.

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      • #4


        She's a womens rights/mothers rights activist judge.

        Not a bit surprised and she looks like what i'd expect her to look like.

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        • #5
          Maybe I'm the minority here... But if you're a single parent wouldn't it be a good idea to get out of the services?

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          • #6
            Originally posted by 2011GT View Post
            Maybe I'm the minority here... But if you're a single parent wouldn't it be a good idea to get out of the services?
            He's not tho - he's married and the step mother is taking care of the kid.

            “He’s protecting the rights of others, but who is protecting his rights?” said Hindes’ current wife and the child’s step-mother, Benita-Lynn. Six-year-old Kaylee has been living with Benita-Lynn in Washington State while Hindes is deployed aboard the nuclear submarine.

            Did you read just the title?

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            • #7
              Originally posted by 2011GT View Post
              Maybe I'm the minority here... But if you're a single parent wouldn't it be a good idea to get out of the services?
              ...overall addressed, but to answer another way - a lot of folks do if they have kids. Others do not (seen this out of a couple females)

              However, you still have a contract obligation to fulfill. It's not like the DoD says "oh, sorry about your divorce. Would you like to be discharged?"
              Originally posted by MR EDD
              U defend him who use's racial slurs like hes drinking water.

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              • #8
                That's fucked up.

                as said fire the judge.

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by 2011GT
                  The kid is also 8 years old. So his obligations are long over. Serving the country takes a lot of honor but being a dad takes more.
                  You're also talking about sending a kid back in to a home that CPS removed the child from. That could be very, very dangerous for the child. Apparently the judge can't get over her ego enough to see that.
                  Originally posted by BradM
                  But, just like condoms and women's rights, I don't believe in them.
                  Originally posted by Leah
                  In other news: Brent's meat melts in your mouth.

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by bcoop View Post
                    You're also talking about sending a kid back in to a home that CPS removed the child from. That could be very, very dangerous for the child. Apparently the judge can't get over her ego enough to see that.
                    We don't have all of the story here. Maybe the step mother is also a pos? Maybe the birth mother had issues and it's now been resolved? Yes the judge is also a piece of shit and should give this guy time or allow him to do it through skype or his lawyer to be his voice.

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by 2011GT View Post
                      We don't have all of the story here. Maybe the step mother is also a pos? Maybe the birth mother had issues and it's now been resolved?
                      True, I'd like to know more about the CPS thing. CPS are no angels either.

                      I just don't think it's right to say "well, the kid is 8, so he shouldn't be in the military anymore". I don't know that any father in their right mind would leave a child with an unstable SO.

                      And speaking from experience, I don't give a shit what the circumstances are. If CPS and a judge have upheld a custody order, because for whatever reason, a mother was unfit then that chance is gone. My son's mother has turned her life around, but that doesn't mean everything is suddenly fine. My son will be scarred for life. And while he and I can both forgive, we won't forget. She sees him, but she won't ever have a normal custody situation. Not as long as I'm alive, or by extension, my parents or siblings. Think of it like being a criminal. You can serve your time, pay your fines, do your community service. You can turn your life around, but certain rights and freedoms are gone forever.
                      Originally posted by BradM
                      But, just like condoms and women's rights, I don't believe in them.
                      Originally posted by Leah
                      In other news: Brent's meat melts in your mouth.

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                      • #12
                        How exactly does one go about... firing.. a judge?

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by GE View Post
                          How exactly does one go about... firing.. a judge?
                          They can be impeached or disbarred.
                          Originally posted by BradM
                          But, just like condoms and women's rights, I don't believe in them.
                          Originally posted by Leah
                          In other news: Brent's meat melts in your mouth.

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                          • #14
                            fixed

                            Originally posted by Kart21 View Post
                            That's fucked up.

                            set fire to the judge.
                            I would think that being held up in the US military would give him a valid reason for not being there.

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by GE View Post
                              How exactly does one go about... firing.. a judge?
                              Magazine in
                              Chamber round
                              Locate target
                              Safety off
                              Squeeze trigger
                              ?????
                              Profit
                              .

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