Need some advice on disciplining a 13 yo

[lincolnboy]

I used to date this broad who had a little boy. He was a brat, so when he was bad we would go "wrestle" in his room. I'd fuck that kid up. I used to power bomb his little ass on the hardwood floors.

He started calling me daddy, which made things weird, and want to kick his ass more

and thats how we know Buzzo loves little boys.

[CexMashean]

guess you wont know what my GPA was in h.s.

It doesn't matter when you drop out.

[War Machine]

and thats how we know Buzzo loves little boys.

you rascal

[lincolnboy]

guys guys peace and love

[YALE]

And photoshop. Don't forget photoshop.

[SS Junk]

All I can say is good luck. I never respected my step mom or brother. Didn't like them then, don't like them now.

[talisman]

lol. Good luck dude. My parents never found anything that worked with me in regards to school; grounding, taking shit away, I didn't care. My problem was boredom. From the 4th grade on I basically sat in each class and read novels all day, and did what ever minimal work I could get away with to make a 70. I probably spent more time figuring out how many assignments I could get away with completely ignoring and getting a zero on and still pass the class than on the actual work I did. Seeing in the news what passes as "school" these days I feel really bad for parents. I wish mine had sent me to private school in retrospect, but I really have no idea if it would have helped.

[beefed88]

So how many baby daddies will you have to deal with? 3?

[phaux]

Why are his grades bad? Does he not find it challenging, is he a slacker, just plain dumb, can't pay attention?

I would setup a meeting with his teacher first and find out exactly what's going on at school. My wife is a teacher and she constantly tells me stories of how just about anytime they have a parent-teacher conference (as is mandatory at the school she was at) the parents never had any idea of any problems the kids were having at school. It was like the home and school were two totally different worlds. Go talk to the teachers, a good teacher will gladly sit down with you and figure out what's going on and create a plan of action to fix the situation.

[Pokulski-Blatz]

In that event...and I'm sure you've heard this a lot...don't put yourself through this.

Unless she's rich, a 10/10, and amazingly dedicated to pleasing you...and you're a poor 2/10 alcoholic asshole.

If you have seen his girl and know Jeff you would know that she is way outa his league. All the bolded stuff applies.

[Unicorn Jeff]

So how many baby daddies will you have to deal with? 3?

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Why are his grades bad? Does he not find it challenging, is he a slacker, just plain dumb, can't pay attention?

I would setup a meeting with his teacher first and find out exactly what's going on at school. My wife is a teacher and she constantly tells me stories of how just about anytime they have a parent-teacher conference (as is mandatory at the school she was at) the parents never had any idea of any problems the kids were having at school. It was like the home and school were two totally different worlds. Go talk to the teachers, a good teacher will gladly sit down with you and figure out what's going on and create a plan of action to fix the situation.

He's just lazy and slacking about doing his work.

If you have seen his girl and know Jeff you would know that she is way outa his league. All the bolded stuff applies.

True on all accounts.

[ELVIS]

well as a single dad i can tell you this.......

with +/- one week left of school, you've picked a great time to start worrying about grades!

god bless.

[Unicorn Jeff]

well as a single dad i can tell you this.......

with +/- one week left of school, you've picked a great time to start worrying about grades!

god bless.

No this has been on going. Just decided to make a thread lol.

[Roscoe]

One of my personal favorites was making my son write out in full the Declaration of Independence. If that goes by quickly, you can always hit the Bill of Rights, Frost's favorite, the Constitution, etc.

Monitor bathroom breaks, cannot eat until hits milestones, etc.

[Cannon88]

I tell my son that you either have to be smart or strong to make in life as a man. Give him homework and grade it. And if that doesn't work make him work. My son has moved pallets of bricks, ran laps at the school track, chopped wood, picked weeds, driven a box of deck screws into wood by hand. Get creative!

Lmao. Thats a good one.