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  • #61
    It looks like introducing him to talisman May be the best scared straight after reading post 52...explain to him the great life of an internet troll and he should shape right up.

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    • #62
      Maybe offer him some $$$ as an incentive.

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      • #63
        Originally posted by Ruffdaddy View Post
        It looks like introducing him to talisman May be the best scared straight after reading post 52...explain to him the great life of an internet troll and he should shape right up.

        I don't think you understand what an internet troll is.

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        • #64
          Originally posted by Magnus View Post
          Give me my phone back, you aren't my dad!!!!!
          If "DAD" pays for it, let "DAD" deal with him. Trust me.......you will never win this one. Besides, you only have to deal with maybe 5 more years.

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          • #65
            Originally posted by FastFox View Post
            If "DAD" pays for it, let "DAD" deal with him. Trust me.......you will never win this one. Besides, you only have to deal with maybe 5 more years.
            No I pay for it LOL...

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            • #66
              Originally posted by Unicorn Jeff View Post
              No I pay for it LOL...

              lol. Dude, frankly it takes some balls to do what you're doing. If you're going to go in, go in all the way!

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              • #67
                Originally posted by talisman View Post
                lol. Dude, frankly it takes some balls to do what you're doing. If you're going to go in, go in all the way!
                No shit. More power to you, Jeff. But after my ventures in dating single moms, no amount of money would make that situation worthwhile for me.
                Originally posted by BradM
                But, just like condoms and women's rights, I don't believe in them.
                Originally posted by Leah
                In other news: Brent's meat melts in your mouth.

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                • #68
                  Originally posted by bcoop View Post
                  No shit. More power to you, Jeff. But after my ventures in dating single moms, no amount of money would make that situation worthwhile for me.
                  This man knows what's up.

                  It really isn't your fault, it's HER fault, I don't know the reasoning for her not being with her kids daddies but, you are coming into a relationship that will have no good outcome, if it does it will be one of the few rare times that it will come out good. You are raising another mans kid(s), they are all individual little people that need guidance, discipline, love and affection from both parents.
                  Just as quick as you all are to discipline you will also need to show love and care. The hard part will fall on you, you are the father figure but she is the mother that will have to help with HER kids. Some women want a man to do everything and then she comes in to mop up the tears and make everything better which will always make you the bad guy, no matter how much good you do, they will always remember the bad.

                  Good luck, you're going to need it...
                  Originally posted by Silverback
                  Look all you want, she can't find anyone else who treats her as bad as I do, and I keep her self esteem so low, she wouldn't think twice about going anywhere else.

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                  • #69
                    Originally posted by Unicorn Jeff View Post
                    I let momma take care of that dirty work bullshit. And they're great kids. Just the grades thing is what's pissing us off.
                    I mean to say this in the nicest way possible, but, maybe he's just stupid?

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                    • #70
                      Originally posted by Rick Modena View Post
                      they are all individual little people that need guidance, discipline, love and affection from both parents.
                      Just as quick as you all are to discipline you will also need to show love and care. ...
                      i cant speak on raising anothers kids, but i commend you. and the advice above is 100% good as gold.

                      god bless.
                      It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men -Frederick Douglass

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                      • #71
                        Originally posted by ELVIS View Post
                        i cant speak on raising anothers kids, but i commend you. and the advice above is 100% good as gold.
                        If anyone knows its me, it sounds like Jeff is the same age I was when I got with my wife, except I had another kid and an bat shit crazy ex-wife to deal with as well.
                        I didn't have anyone to give me advise and coming home after a 12 hour hot shift (no climate control) didn't make it any easier. I made a bunch of mistakes and they have come back full circle to bite me in the ass. I have a limited relationship with the oldest and zero with the second oldest. The last two seem to love me to death. I learned from my mistakes with the older two and changed on the fly with the last two. Don't get me wrong, it's still a pain in the ass with the last two as well, but you have to think how they do, how we did (react at their ages) at that age and that will make your path a little bit easier...
                        Originally posted by Silverback
                        Look all you want, she can't find anyone else who treats her as bad as I do, and I keep her self esteem so low, she wouldn't think twice about going anywhere else.

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                        • #72
                          Originally posted by Rick Modena View Post
                          If anyone knows its me, it sounds like Jeff is the same age I was when I got with my wife, except I had another kid and an bat shit crazy ex-wife to deal with as well.
                          I didn't have anyone to give me advise and coming home after a 12 hour hot shift (no climate control) didn't make it any easier. I made a bunch of mistakes and they have come back full circle to bite me in the ass. I have a limited relationship with the oldest and zero with the second oldest. The last two seem to love me to death. I learned from my mistakes with the older two and changed on the fly with the last two. Don't get me wrong, it's still a pain in the ass with the last two as well, but you have to think how they do, how we did (react at their ages) at that age and that will make your path a little bit easier...

                          Your daughter seems well adjusted. She likes me so you must have done something right!!

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                          • #73
                            Originally posted by talisman View Post
                            Your daughter seems well adjusted. She likes me so you must have done something right!!
                            She likes a mental challenge and you offered one up. Not just the same old, "you're so pretty, you want to go out on a date" line.

                            You sly fucking devil!
                            Originally posted by Silverback
                            Look all you want, she can't find anyone else who treats her as bad as I do, and I keep her self esteem so low, she wouldn't think twice about going anywhere else.

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                            • #74
                              note to self, knock off the "you're so pretty, you want to go out on a date" spiel.

                              god bless.
                              It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men -Frederick Douglass

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                              • #75
                                Originally posted by ELVIS View Post
                                note to self, knock off the "you're so pretty, you want to go out on a date" spiel.

                                god bless.
                                Yeah, mimic Eric's mentally challenged approach.
                                "If I asked people what they wanted, they would have said faster horses." - Henry Ford

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