For the married couples...a question for the men

[idrivea4banger]

At what point in y'alls relationship did you realize she was the one? How long before you decided to pop the question?

[Pokulski-Blatz]

When I realized I wasn't going anywhere. I don't subscribe to that "one" horseshit. If you can live with her/him and get along most of the time you are better off than 85% of other couples.

Popped the question after about a year and eight months after we started dating. Much too soon IMO. Young and dumb ect ... It has worked out though, I can't complain too much.

[bcoop]

Go to sleep, Hugo, before you do something you regret!

[diablo rojo]

There's no specific formula. I've known couples who dated for years that couldn't last a year married. Then, there's some like my parents that dated for a month before getting married.....44 years ago.

It either works or it doesn't. Both parties have to put the effort in though.

[ceyko]

It either works or it doesn't. Both parties have to put the effort in though.

This is clutch.



To answer OP's question - if you have to ask....it ain't time.

[talisman]

Go to sleep, Hugo, before you do something you regret!

No shit!!

[lincolnboy]

After a month i told her she is now.the one to see my penis.

[Roscoe]

I was 19 so any reason then isn't worth hearing. Too young but zero regrets

[Brn N Rubr]

It's never a single moment. It's a collection of moments and one day they add up in your head and you think, "yep, she's the one."

[Craizie]

"Don't do it." ~ Logic.

[YALE]

It's never a single moment. It's a collection of moments and one day they add up in your head and you think, "yep, she's the one."

This. Disclaimer: I'm not married yet, but I'm pretty close.

[Sean88gt]

After a month i told her she is now.the one to see my penis.

Spoken like a non-closer. A month?! LOL

"I've decided to give you my valued and protected cherry"

[BlackGT]

About a year and a half for me. We got married exactly 2 years to the date after we met. That was almost 4 years ago now.

[helosailor]

A. Don't decide while drunk
B. Don't do it in bed
C. Don't do it while A and B

[4bangen]

My wife and I both had previously been married to other people so we were gun shy on getting married. We dated 3 years. We lived together pretty much from day one, and raised a kid together, but waited on the wring. We both feared things would change if we got hitched, but finally figured out that we weren't like our ex's.
I'll also say very early on I figured out, of all the women in the world, this was the only one that could put up with me and enjoy it. She's like me but with a better rack and a year round tan.