ffffffuuuuuuuuuuuddddddggggggggeeeeee

[90GT50]

Make her take a pee test.

[idrivea4banger]

I hear the grand canyon is great this time of year.

[Torinoman]

lolz, you guys crack me up. There's some really good advise on here too!


But in all seriousness, IF she is, my choice is get back with her or she wants to put it up for adoption.... arggggggggggggggggggg

[Denny]

Maybe she's lying just to get you back and then work her way out of it once you noticed the mistake you made for leaving your soul mate?

[mstng86]

lolz, you guys crack me up. There's some really good advise on here too!


But in all seriousness, IF she is, my choice is get back with her or she wants to put it up for adoption.... arggggggggggggggggggg

In all seriousness, if you can't handle a baby, then by all means do adoption. But, I recommend you seriously considering keeping the child. There are so many things that you learn from the experience and the events and life you brought into the world and it all makes up for any inconveniences you will have money or otherwise.

[Torinoman]

Maybe she's lying just to get you back and then work her way out of it once you noticed the mistake you made for leaving your soul mate?

I've thought about that but she's not that type of person

In all seriousness, if you can't handle a baby, then by all means do adoption. But, I recommend you seriously considering keeping the child. There are so many things that you learn from the experience and the events and life you brought into the world and it all makes up for any inconveniences you will have money or otherwise.

Yeah, I've considered or am considering it all, but neither of us want to raise a kid in a broken home sort of situation and I dunno if I wanna spend 18 years with her. She's not a bad person but I had real reasons why I broke up with her.

[mstng86]

Yeah, I've considered or am considering it all, but neither of us want to raise a kid in a broken home sort of situation and I dunno if I wanna spend 18 years with her. She's not a bad person but I had real reasons why I broke up with her.

Yea that is the big issue. I would not use the child as a reason to get back together. I just think if you have the means, and you are an adult, having a child put up for adoption is not a good idea. But everyone has different circumstances.

I honestly don't know how I would live with myself knowing my son was in another home raised by people I know nothing about.

[SVT Lurch]

Tell her you were shooting blanks - bring a doctor's note.

[Denny]

I've thought about that but she's not that type of person

Of course you think so, or you wouldn't have been dating her.

[32vfromhell]

[MutherjuggZ]

and the real fucked up thing is that i broke up with her a couple weeks ago

Broke up how long ago exactly? Paternity test what?

[Osiris]

Heeey, don't we have a board member here who's looking to adopt?

[Torinoman]

Yea that is the big issue. I would not use the child as a reason to get back together. I just think if you have the means, and you are an adult, having a child put up for adoption is not a good idea. But everyone has different circumstances.

I honestly don't know how I would live with myself knowing my son was in another home raised by people I know nothing about.

Means? I guess i could manage if I have to but my job has been going down hill for the last year or so and I moved home to go back to school...

I don't like the idea of passing my child on to other people but in some circumstances it almost seems like it would be better for him. Raised in a happy home by an established couple who are prepared and wanting a child not a couple forced back together for his sake. It really is a double edged sword.

Broke up how long ago exactly? Paternity test what?

Broke up on the second of Jan...

[Torinoman]

Of course you think so, or you wouldn't have been dating her.

yeah, I'll admit anything is possible but right now I'm working on the assumption that its mine and have no reason to assume otherwise

[fordracing19]

Heeey, don't we have a board member here who's looking to adopt?

Sgt Bevis and his wife.