Thanks for all the advice. I've never dated a girl with kids so I think I'll call it quits before things start to get serious. She's not looking for a daddy for her kids but I know she is going to want some type of commitment if this continues. It's been a really great time but I guess it's time for it to end.
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Single parents should really only date other single parents. If you aren't interested in being with her kids for now, tell her. Just know that once you dedicate yourself to her then you also need to earn the respect of her kids. If her kids don't respect you the relationship will go nowhere. If she doesn't like the idea of you not getting involved with her kids (at least for now) then vamoose. Relationships like this need to be taken extremely slow if you want it to last.
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Originally posted by SEB View PostI cant see dating a girl 10 years younger then me. Girls are immature at in their early 20s & are all about playing immature relationship games.
My chick is younger, but she is pretty level headed and very chill. Everyone is different...
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Originally posted by racrguy View PostThis thread is full of so much win. I've only messed with one breezy with kids, and I'm out on that. Fuck other folks' kids, ain't nobody got time for that!Originally posted by Theodore RooseveltIt is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming...
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Originally posted by SS Junk View PostSingle parents should really only date other single parents.
Originally posted by SS Junk View PostIf you aren't interested in being with her kids for now, tell her. Just know that once you dedicate yourself to her then you also need to earn the respect of her kids. If her kids don't respect you the relationship will go nowhere. If she doesn't like the idea of you not getting involved with her kids (at least for now) then vamoose. Relationships like this need to be taken extremely slow if you want it to last.
I do strongly agree with all of the above, however.
I used to date chicks with kids, but for the reasons I already mentioned, I stopped it all together. It's just not worth the hassle, and frustration. I don't need to be anyone else's Daddy. I don't want to be anyone else's Daddy. Blesss my ex wife's heart, for taking on my son as her own, but no fucking way I could possibly do it. Not for any real length of time, however. And like I said, chicks want you to meet their kids after just a couple of dates. Fuck that shit. I dated a girl for 7-8 months, and she didn't meet my kids a single time. She still hasn't met my kids to this day, and even though we are dating again, she won't meet them any time soon. I think introducing someone to your kids in anything under a year, is a tell tale sign of terrible parenting, and terrible decision making. Just my biased asshole opinion, of course.Originally posted by BradMBut, just like condoms and women's rights, I don't believe in them.Originally posted by LeahIn other news: Brent's meat melts in your mouth.
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Originally posted by bcoop View PostStrongly disagree with this. And a lot of it is probably because I won't do it, so I'll admit to that. But, yeah... Fuck that. I'm not raising someone else's kid. At all. And a lot of people, especially single moms, don't agree with me on discipline. If I were to date a chick with kids, they WILL be well behaved, and they WILL respect me, or Mom can get fucked by someone else's diseased dick.
I do strongly agree with all of the above, however.
I used to date chicks with kids, but for the reasons I already mentioned, I stopped it all together. It's just not worth the hassle, and frustration. I don't need to be anyone else's Daddy. I don't want to be anyone else's Daddy. Blesss my ex wife's heart, for taking on my son as her own, but no fucking way I could possibly do it. Not for any real length of time, however. And like I said, chicks want you to meet their kids after just a couple of dates. Fuck that shit. I dated a girl for 7-8 months, and she didn't meet my kids a single time. She still hasn't met my kids to this day, and even though we are dating again, she won't meet them any time soon. I think introducing someone to your kids in anything under a year, is a tell tale sign of terrible parenting, and terrible decision making. Just my biased asshole opinion, of course.Last edited by Probie; 03-21-2013, 12:07 PM.Originally posted by Theodore RooseveltIt is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming...
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Originally posted by Silverback View Posti haven't even met my own kids, why would i want to meet some chick i'm dating's kids?Originally posted by BradMBut, just like condoms and women's rights, I don't believe in them.Originally posted by LeahIn other news: Brent's meat melts in your mouth.
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