Legacy

[talisman]

Florida is a couple of days away.

[Tyrone Biggums]

fuck being 50 with a kid just graduating HS...

Don't let that be a deterrent. I'll be 51 when my son graduates. It not the way I planned it, only the hand I was dealt. I'll take it.

[CJ-95GT]

The simple fact is we all die and nobody will remember or care except your offspring. Everything that is good about you should carry over to them. Hence, your legacy will live on pass your body.

[racrguy]

Don't let that be a deterrent. I'll be 51 when my son graduates. It not the way I planned it, only the hand I was dealt. I'll take it.

The way I look at it is I'd be too old to do any cool shit with my grandkids or go on adult vacations with my kids like I'd envision them happening.

[ELVIS]

Mostly because I can't drive to Houston and at the same time spill the extra large bladder buster cherry red icee all over the backseat and into my luggage like happened last Friday all by myself!!

God bless.

[Frank]

I am one of the last in my line. Thankfully one of my cousins has had a son or two and that took some pressure off. Having kids by natural methods has not been a great priority for us. We chose adoption because we felt like this world is screwed up enough and the little ones already here need help much more. We haven't gone out of our way to prevent or stack the odds in our favor. If it happens, it happens, but I am content with the two that we have.

[Leah]

And again, I genuinely don't want to upset any of my married with kids friends on here!! Just feel like the odd man out sometimes, and I am COMPLETELY okay with that considering the requirements. Just working on some things in my head.

I'll be 48 when our last graduates. Woot, woot!

[mustang_revival]

Just freeze some sperm in case you change your mind later.

[Nash B.]

It's great to finally have someone around who makes me feel smart.

I thought that's what marriage was for.

[Unicorn Jeff]

I'll be 48 when our last graduates. Woot, woot!

LoL WuT? Thought you were already that old.

[talisman]

Just freeze some sperm in case you change your mind later.

Not going to happen and won't be getting married again.

[Nash B.]

Mostly because I can't drive to Houston and at the same time spill the extra large bladder buster cherry red icee all over the backseat and into my luggage like happened last Friday all by myself!!

God bless.

I don't buy this for a minute.

[dsrtuckteezy]

i wanna do hoodrat stuff wit my friends!

[Tyrone Biggums]

The way I look at it is I'd be too old to do any cool shit with my grandkids or go on adult vacations with my kids like I'd envision them happening.

Not hardly.My grandpa was 57 when I was born and we did tons of cool shit together. My fondest memories as a kid were spent with him. He set the example for what kind of person I should be. At 80, he got to do something really cool with his grandson. He was the best man in my wedding and it was one of the best days of his life. It took some convincing, as he didn't think it was the role someone his age should take, but I told him that the groom's best friend is supposed to be the best man and he was my best friend. So it was.

As for myself, I'm kind of on the same path age-wise that my grandpa was with my dad and then me and I'm ok with that. The only thing that hurts more than his passing is that he did not get to meet my son, but he had a great run.

Anyways, don't let age discount anything.

[idrivea4banger]

When I first found out that I was going to be a father I wanted to give my son away. At the time I didn't want kids and knew I wasn't fit nor ready to be a father. I broke up with his mom at 8 months of her pregnancy, I told her that I would help her raise him. I didn't want him growing up without a father figure like I did. I remember when he was born my whole outlook changed. I was not going to abandon this tiny human being; his mother I would. She threatened me with not letting me see my son 3 days after he was born if I didn't give her any money. Took the bitch to court and got my rights to my son.

I did what I was obligated by the courts to do to take care of my son. I was part time, I wwas there for him but never really there. I would still go out and enjoy my single life. I honestly did this for his first 5 years. Nothing would stop me from enjoying the good life. It wasn't until he turned 6 when I left him with his grandmother when I realized that I was being selfish. He hugged me goodbye as I walked out for the night. That whole night I realized what I was doing was wrong. I ended that lifestyle then and haven't looked back since.

I hardly ever go out nowadays. I mostly stay at home and text, talk with my son more than I do with my friends. I have the option to do what any single man can do. I prefer to just rather share experiences with my son and show him what I can about life. If I had to do it all over again i wouldn't change anything. By the time he turns 20 I'll be 40, I already told him we'll be having some good times chasing tail, lol. I think I may have gotten off topic.....I've had a few tonight. Byt my point is there's nothing wrong in your way of thinking about having children. Dont think about it too much, no one can dictate what you do with your own life but yourself.































Btw......you're 36?!? Fuck, I thought you were 40.