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    Yesterday, while driving to meet a friend for lunch, my wife had a bit of an incident. I'm looking to get some feedback from some police officers on what, if anything, should be done about this.


    Heading east on 30 toward downtown Dallas, trying to get northbound on the Tollway. When you go from 30 east to 35 north traffic always slows down. The guy in front of her slammed on his brakes, she locked up hers, as did the person behind her... no wreck, no contact anywhere, no harm, no foul.

    Well the guy in front of her took offense to this and started following her.

    She was going to exit at Lovers to head to Breadwinners and had a feeling this guy was not going to leave her alone so she stayed in the middle lane until the last minute then cut across to the exit (no traffic in the R lane, don't worry) and he cut across and followed her, so suspicions confirmed.

    He followed her down Lovers to the restaurant. She parked in a front row spot near the patio where people were eating and this guy pulled up behind her blocking her in the parking spot.

    She wanted to get inside quickly so she got out of her car and then so did he, and he started approaching her. He was irate about what happened... though no one hit anyone else, and he almost hit the person in front of him just like she almost ran into the back of him.

    Anyway, she was on the phone with her dad when she got out of the car and he was "on the phone with 911" (his words). She was scared shitless. When she got out of her car she had one hand in her purse on her pistol.

    He asked if she was calling 911 then, for some fucking odd reason, identified himself as Lieutenant J______ S_____ with the _________ police department.
    Clarification: he was in a porsche, not a police car, and was not in uniform

    At this point my wife is scared and irate. She responded "I don't care. I'm a CHL carrier, I'll protect myself and I'm feeling extremely threatened by you right now."

    He immediately changed his tune, said, "Well, I don't see any damage..." and got back in his car and left.



    What the fuck.



    I did some googling later and this guy is legit. He is actually a cop. I found a pic of him wearing a _______ PD shirt, on their site, and she confirmed that it was the same guy.


    IMO that behavior is unacceptable. Is it worth contacting his department and filing a complaint? My wife said she would love to get an apology from the douchebag, but I'm not holding my breath.

    So, what would DFWmustangs do?

  • #2
    File a complaint, the guy is not above the law if he is a cop. Good for him for serving, but don't chase a woman down. He needs to get his ass beat IMO...being a cop doesn't change the fact that he is a male chasing a woman out of rage.
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    • #3
      Stop breaking the law asshole
      Shoot the fucktard

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      • #4
        I would leave it alone. It is going to boil down to her word against his and nothing will come of it. If he is forced to defend himself then you know he is going to lie to get out of punishment. And if he was willing to chase her down in the first place then I would not put it past him to attempt to retaliate if she did try to cause a stink. Seems like the threat of the CHL did the trick, and he obviously reconsidered his approach.

        I know this doesn't give you or her any satisfaction or "justice", but probably the best scenario.

        Might I recommend that if she has an encounter like this again that she call 911 immediately.

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        • #5
          Always worth filing a complaint. Will you get full satisfaction that things were handled the way you want? No... but what if you are the third or fourth person to stay quiet about it. His pattern just continues.

          Until citizens report and hold people accountable for their actions you will never see things change.

          Quick side story :

          Ex-GF goes to pick up a friend who has had too much to drink and can't drive. Cops began to investigate the girl for a PI while she was en route, so once she gets there its already a scene. 3-4 cops for one drunk girl She shows ID and stuff, everything clears up and she drives her friend home.

          2 hours later, one of the cops from the scene comes up to my Ex's apartment and is "checking to see if she got home ok". Shes freaked out that she got followed home, manages to get rid of him. An hour later he texts her - she has no idea how he got her phone number at first, then realizes her drunk friend gave it to them when she was being questioned. She ignores it, but he keeps texting. This goes on for 2 weeks.

          We were having drinks together at Cedars Social downtown and the motherfucker drives by and spotlights her car in the parking lot. last straw - we walked across the street to the DPD HQ, found a supervisor and filed a complaint right then and there.

          She never heard from her police stalker again.
          Last edited by Binky; 02-08-2013, 10:12 AM.

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          • #6
            Originally posted by Binky View Post
            Always worth filing a complaint. Will you get full satisfaction that things were handled the way you want? No... but what if you are the third or fourth person to stay quiet about it. His pattern just continues.

            Until citizens report and hold people accountable for their actions you will never see things change.
            That was my biggest concern. If he's a hothead and something goes down in the future it would benefit anyone else involved later to have a paper trail.

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            • #7
              I wouldn't just let it go or ignore it. If no one reports him for being unstable, then he will continue doing it until someone gets hurt or killed, at which point he probably still won't be punished. If your wife had done it to him, she would have been beaten and arrested. If he can't control his emotions or ego, then he probably shouldn't be a cop.

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              • #8
                I'd report it, but I also wouldn't give a fuck about retaliation. Wouldn't have the slightest bit of concern about it. Your results may vary. Bullshit like that is very much worth the effort to me of having to get in even deeper to make a point if called for.

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Strychnine View Post
                  That was my biggest concern. If he's a hothead and something goes down in the future it would benefit anyone else involved later to have a paper trail.
                  Anyone who gets upset enough about an accident that didn't even happen enough to follow a woman and confront her is a hot head.

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                  • #10
                    you have his info. make it right. this is dfwmustangs, and we all know DAMN, it feels good to be a gangsta'

                    god bless.
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                    • #11
                      IDK, maybe I'm missing something, but what all did he do other than follow her, and, according to him, call 911? Maybe he though there was more to the issue and in the heat of the moment, with him slamming on his brakes, he thought she actually hit him then left? Was he cussing at her, threatening her, swerving at her, riding her ass? It could very easily have been that he thought he was hit, hence the "doesn't look like there is any damage" statement.

                      Absent anything I mentioned I really don't see what the complaint would be other than him "following" her.

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                      • #12
                        Report it.

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                        • #13
                          Report it.

                          The guy needs a paper trail. Thats unexceptable behavior.
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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by Mike View Post
                            Report it.
                            snitch.

                            god bless.
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                            • #15
                              Sounds like he thought she tapped him. Are you 100% sure that she didn't?

                              That would make the entire scenario completely understandable. Could be his mistake, but if he was trying to mess with her, why would he call 911 or identify himself as an officer?

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