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    This is just a rant. No one cares - hell I don't even really care anymore as I have resigned myself to not caring due to fact this person - my sister - can't and won't make the one decsion to save her life.

    She has hooked up and married the most worthless, broke, stupid cock I have ever seen.

    The highlights so far -
    -dated dumbass in 2007-dumbass has four kids-two from ex wife, two from exgf. His tax refund is child support payment to exwife.
    - preg with little girl in early 2008
    -married the dumbass in 2008 (he had a job)
    -dumbass quit job in 2009 (still jobless)
    -dumbass was given custody of two of his kids in 2010 (because exgf didn't want them)
    -one kid is very retarded, the other kid is very autistic
    -does dumbass things like sleep while austic child runs away and retarded daughter abuses little girl
    -sister works 40 hours a week in grocery store, while dumbass can't get a job, drives all over the place visiting friends, spends money on himself.
    -dumbass wrecks his car
    -dumbass buys minivan
    -dumbass gets minivan repo'd
    -dumbass decides to choke my sister one night
    -smartest thing my sister has done this entire failed episode of her life - she calls the cops and he goes to jail on a Felony charge
    -mom bails dumbass son out for 10K
    -sister decides not to press charges
    - DA hasn't brought charges yet - doesn't know if they will.
    -kicked out of apartment because of damage to building
    -friend of family rented them a house
    -asked to leave because of damages
    -now they live in trailer park over 20 miles from sister's work.


    And the whole reason I post this - is because she calls me wanting to use me as a reference at a rent to own appliance store because she needs a washer and dryer at the trailer they are renting. I told her to drive to a laundromat - and she says she can't because dumbass uses her car to go places. I ask her why she can't goto the scratch and dent place and pick up a set for $400 - and she says they don't have $400 - and I told her if you don't have $400 then why are you going to pay over $1200? Financial stupidity is a fucking disease.

    Why can't abused women see the light and know they have the upper hand on these deals. My sister is convinced that if she leaves the dumbass he will get custody of their little girl - which is smarter then two of them put together at this point. There is no happy ending for this story in sight.

  • #2
    damn don't know what else to say but its hard to help people when they wont help themselves

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    • #3
      she needs to take her little girl and go to a woman's shelter, leave dumbass in the trailer with his kids and let him figure out life himself

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      • #4
        You can't fix stupid. You can only mitigate the damage they might do to you.

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        • #5
          what's his handle on here?

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          • #6
            Sounds like she still hasn't hit rock bottom yet. That is probably what it will take for her to open her eyes. I'd hate to see anyone I cared about go through something like that, but I figured out a long time ago if someone is always asking you for advice and never takes it, it is best to cut ties. Bloodlines be damned.

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            • #7
              Originally posted by grove rat View Post
              she needs to take her little girl and go to a woman's shelter, leave dumbass in the trailer with his kids and let him figure out life himself
              x2

              my thoughts are with you man...I hope she realizes that she needs to leave!

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              • #8
                It's not your problem + you can't fix it for her + she isn't going to help herself = Tell her you're sorry to hear what she's going through, but that you're not going to do anything unless and until she helps herself.

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by talisman View Post
                  Sounds like she still hasn't hit rock bottom yet. That is probably what it will take for her to open her eyes. I'd hate to see anyone I cared about go through something like that, but I figured out a long time ago if someone is always asking you for advice and never takes it, it is best to cut ties. Bloodlines be damned.
                  Children are the only thing that would keep me from doing the "let her hit rock bottom" bit. The child suffers. The real issue is what the correct response is to her obvious calls for help... I don't have a good answer.
                  Originally posted by PGreenCobra
                  I can't get over the fact that you get to go live the rest of your life, knowing that someone made a Halloween costume out of you. LMAO!!
                  Originally posted by Trip McNeely
                  Originally posted by dsrtuckteezy
                  dont downshift!!
                  Go do a whooly in front of a Peterbilt.

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by DON SVO View Post
                    Children are the only thing that would keep me from doing the "let her hit rock bottom" bit. The child suffers. The real issue is what the correct response is to her obvious calls for help... I don't have a good answer.
                    That's because there isn't a good answer. It has to come from her. This pretty well sums it up:

                    Originally posted by Gear_Jammer View Post
                    It's not your problem + you can't fix it for her + she isn't going to help herself = Tell her you're sorry to hear what she's going through, but that you're not going to do anything unless and until she helps herself.

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                    • #11
                      The guy hasn't worked in 3 years, has two kids, and they live in a trailer. This guy has 0 ambition.

                      The only positive thing this guy will ever do is die.

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                      • #12
                        I've got a cousin that has done some similar things, like getting knocked up and marrying a felon. Then surprise surprise he ends up back in jail and leaves her stuck with the kid.

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                        • #13
                          Show dumbass the shovel and tell him "disappear on your own or the hole is already dug. Your choice"
                          Fuck you. We're going to Costco.

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                          • #14
                            Parents pay for the little girl to go to private school - at least while she is there is away from dumbass and his retarded daughter - which she is 14 and has been tested for a mental capacity of a 4 year old.

                            When she was choked and the dumbass had the standard restraining order put against him - she did goto the woman's shelter and they told her the same thing everyone else has been saying - leave. She told me once that he threatened to make life miserable and get custody of their little girl if she ever left him - I told her that there is no way he could do that. There is no way the Texas Family Court system would give custody of their little girl to a felon who was out of work and was a MALE. I said women have the Texas Family Court System by the balls - and she could use that to her advantage.

                            CPS has been called on the dumbass mutiple, multiple times. The problem with CPS is - they call to make an appointment - so everything is nice and hunky dory when CPS shows up. I guess dumbass isn't so dumb - he knows how to play the system - I guess any worthless piece of shit could do it.

                            Yes we all standby for Sister - when she decideds to leave him - she has a place to go with her little girl free from harm - she has to make the call. I'm afraid she will be dead before she hits rock bottom.

                            The few times I have talked to dumbass - it got a little violent - and I'm not one to pick fights but I got a mean temper. Anyway thanks for reading and your thoughts.

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by Dave586 View Post
                              Parents pay for the little girl to go to private school - at least while she is there is away from dumbass and his retarded daughter - which she is 14 and has been tested for a mental capacity of a 4 year old.

                              When she was choked and the dumbass had the standard restraining order put against him - she did goto the woman's shelter and they told her the same thing everyone else has been saying - leave. She told me once that he threatened to make life miserable and get custody of their little girl if she ever left him - I told her that there is no way he could do that. There is no way the Texas Family Court system would give custody of their little girl to a felon who was out of work and was a MALE. I said women have the Texas Family Court System by the balls - and she could use that to her advantage.

                              CPS has been called on the dumbass mutiple, multiple times. The problem with CPS is - they call to make an appointment - so everything is nice and hunky dory when CPS shows up. I guess dumbass isn't so dumb - he knows how to play the system - I guess any worthless piece of shit could do it.

                              Yes we all standby for Sister - when she decideds to leave him - she has a place to go with her little girl free from harm - she has to make the call. I'm afraid she will be dead before she hits rock bottom.

                              The few times I have talked to dumbass - it got a little violent - and I'm not one to pick fights but I got a mean temper. Anyway thanks for reading and your thoughts.
                              Take my shovel advice.
                              Fuck you. We're going to Costco.

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