the poor (by decsion) side of family

[Craizie]

I have no pity for women that put themselves in these situations. I feel for the children though. That's no way to grow up.

[dcs13]

I have no pity for women that put themselves in these situations. I feel for the children though. That's no way to grow up.

That's what produces the problem in the first place. These kids grow up thinking that this is a "normal" relationship and then THEY seek out these same type of relationships in their adult lives...

[68chevy2]

I have 3 sisters that about fall into the same category. One has three kids to two different baby-daddies, both not worth a shit. One abused her mentally and physically. The second oldest sister has 3 kids, a set of twins and a younger sister to the twins. She was cheated on, verbally and physically abused. The last time "the shit hit the fan" she called the cops cause ,again, the shitbag got arrested for multiple felonies. The oldest sis in in a tough situation between a rock and a hard place. Her husband refuses to get a normal job and prefers smoking weed and playing video games all day while pissing off the actual owner of the house that they're living in. My advice is fuck them. If they don't learn, it's their own damn fault. I'm not going to babysit them. Enjoy your life, let them sail the fail-boat by themselves!

P.S. No pictures. You wouldn't want them anways.

[Captain Crawfish]

pretty sad these kids have to have such sorry ass parents. they will grow up to be broke and ignorant like their parents only because they dont know any better.

[Dave586]

You guys don't want pictures of my sister..trust me. She has probably put on over a 100 pounds over the last two years and she was overweight when she was married. That's why I say she will probably die before rock bottom comes for her and her situation. She eats because she is depressed - her back and knees are already screwed up because of her weight and I'm sure diabeates and heart disease are just a few years away.

I love my sister very much - and I hate to see her - or any family in a bad situation. I hate to see friends in a bad situation - but if they decide to stay in that situation and defend it - then I legally can't do anything to help them.

The truth is - I can't do anything to help them without dragging down my own life and family with it - until she decides to leave him.

They live in Pottsboro, TX near the BSA Camp - probably picked that site because dumbass's autistic son is in Boy Scouts and uses the camp often.

For the most part my Dad and I have convinced my mom to stop giving them money - she still helps them out with food, gas and cellphone.

This is just a fail train in progress. My niece will probably do ok in life. She will probably see how stupid her dad is and disown him and her two retarded siblings. The sad is - there is a lot more families like this in America. I read in the weeklystandard that there over a 100 million people on some sort of Guberment Assistance - that's a fuck load of people - hate to pull politics into this -but it is what it is.

[Chvyblzr1972]

My Dad's piece of shit younger brother was the same way as your sister's husband. Only he lived with my grandma. At the age of 13 when I mowed lawns for a summer I had already held a job longer than that piece of trash. We found out 4 weeks ago the dipshit overdosed on morphine and died. The best thing that guy ever did for the family was give my Dad 3 days payed off of work.