Let me start off with the fact that I am fed up. I am dating this girl who has a 4 year old that doesn't listen for shit! She literally whines about everything and always gets her way. I am at the breaking point and bout to call it quits because it bothers me so much! This is the 2nd time I have dated someone with a daughter who acts like this. Do I have a right to yell at the little girl and tell her to straighten up? My daughter is 5 and this kinda shit doesn't fly with me. The thing that bothers me most is coming in to the bedroom in the middle of the night crying saying she wants to sleep with her. I am losing sleep and the stress is adding up. Any suggestions appreciated!
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Originally posted by Blakeski View PostLet me start off with the fact that I am fed up. I am dating this girl who has a 4 year old that doesn't listen for shit! She literally whines about everything and always gets her way. I am at the breaking point and bout to call it quits because it bothers me so much! This is the 2nd time I have dated someone with a daughter who acts like this. Do I have a right to yell at the little girl and tell her to straighten up? My daughter is 5 and this kinda shit doesn't fly with me. The thing that bothers me most is coming in to the bedroom in the middle of the night crying saying she wants to sleep with her. I am losing sleep and the stress is adding up. Any suggestions appreciated!
That's like making a post about can I yell at the shit stains that wreak havoc in Walmart? Sure, but the parents most likely won't like it. You need to talk to her about it and depending on how that goes that should make up your mind on the matter.Originally posted by Cmarsh93zDon't Fuck with DFWmustangs...the most powerfull gang I have ever been a member of.
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Sit your gf down and tell her whats up. Tell her this wont fly and needs to be corrected, and if it isnt then you are gone.
I have too little patience for shit like that. Hell, I have a hard time committing to a gf for any petiod longer than about a year, much less a kid.
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There is NO DISCIPLINE though! AT ALL! This child comes in early as fuck asking for icepops and cookies! When she is fed something she says she isn't hungry then 10 minutes later she's asking for junk food! It drives me nuts! I have raised my daughter to be respectful and this kid just doesn't have it. The last girl I dated with a child this age pulled the same stuff. I don't get it, if my child disrespects me their are punishments, I don't threaten, I act.Wanna see my care face???
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Originally posted by sc281 View PostSit your gf down and tell her whats up. Tell her this wont fly and needs to be corrected, and if it isnt then you are gone.
I have too little patience for shit like that. Hell, I have a hard time committing to a gf for any petiod longer than about a year, much less a kid.Wanna see my care face???
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Originally posted by Blakeski View PostThere is NO DISCIPLINE though! AT ALL! This child comes in early as fuck asking for icepops and cookies! When she is fed something she says she isn't hungry then 10 minutes later she's asking for junk food! It drives me nuts! I have raised my daughter to be respectful and this kid just doesn't have it. The last girl I dated with a child this age pulled the same stuff. I don't get it, if my child disrespects me their are punishments, I don't threaten, I act.
If she thinks her little princess does no harm then you know you are in trouble and that no matter what you do it will not change. If so, this will forever be an issue and will only get worse as she gets older.Originally posted by Cmarsh93zDon't Fuck with DFWmustangs...the most powerfull gang I have ever been a member of.
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Originally posted by 347Mike View PostHere is how I look at it. Talk to her see what she needs (the mom). Is she stressed, does she know what she is doing may not be ideal for her kid, is she willing to change, does she need help?
If she thinks her little princess does no harm then you know you are in trouble and that no matter what you do it will not change. If so, this will forever be an issue and will only get worse as she gets older.Wanna see my care face???
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I'd hate to think about what the influence she is having on your own daughter causes.Originally posted by PGreenCobraI can't get over the fact that you get to go live the rest of your life, knowing that someone made a Halloween costume out of you. LMAO!!Originally posted by Trip McNeelyOriginally posted by dsrtuckteezydont downshift!!
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Originally posted by Blakeski View PostDude she is stressed to the max! This little girl is hell on wheels!Originally posted by Cmarsh93zDon't Fuck with DFWmustangs...the most powerfull gang I have ever been a member of.
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I don't even know how to approach her about this, my girl is about 10 years older than me, and I don't want to make her feel like I am trying to belittle her...but on the other hand I have almost 2 years more exp. parenting then she.Wanna see my care face???
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