Dating people with kids

[talisman]

So what exactly are you trying to say? She wants to be with someone who is young, has energy, plays sports etc...

Dude.

[Nash B.]

It's a tarp!

[DON SVO]

So what exactly are you trying to say? She wants to be with someone who is young, has energy, plays sports etc...

She wants someone who can be manipulated, will overlook the fuck trophy and multiple outward signs of insecurity and horrendous self-esteem.

[Blakeski]

[Blakeski]

She wants someone who can be manipulated, will overlook the fuck trophy and multiple outward signs of insecurity and horrendous self-esteem.

Ok that could make sense.

[TexasT]

You Hit it now it is time to quit it if this child's behaviour bothers you. It will only get worse as this moves forward and WILL affect the relationship.

In my mid twenties I went out of my way to date girls without children. No good can come of it.
Run away while you can or you may get attached for 18 years too.

[talisman]

She wants someone who can be manipulated, will overlook the fuck trophy and multiple outward signs of insecurity and horrendous self-esteem.

Bingo. Does she at least have a decent job that has has held for a long time? If not, hoooooooly shit are you getting played. And man, I know my reputation, but I am NOT trying to be a dick here. Warning bells are going off like a submarine that just took 2 torpedoes in the reactor.

[jammeejamm]

it is threads like this and buying oil at wal mart that makes me think...

maybe shit is not all that bad...

[Blakeski]

Bingo. Does she at least have a decent job that has has held for a long time? If not, hoooooooly shit are you getting played. And man, I know my reputation, but I am NOT trying to be a dick here. Warning bells are going off like a submarine that just took 2 torpedoes in the reactor.

She has a great job, house, and lot's of fun minus the kid.

[talisman]

She has a great job, house, and lot's of fun minus the kid.

Well that is a relief. In that case, if you think she is worth it, make a run at trying to talk to her about it. I'd be dubious about thinking it will help, but if you really like her it is worth a shot. Sometimes you never can tell.

[DON SVO]

Ok that could make sense.

Considering the picture that's been painted, I think it's close to spot-on. The biggest eyebrow-raiser for me is that she doesn't have the kid's best intentions in mind. No offense, but there is NO REASON for her daughter to even know you exist after bedtime. The fact that this chick will let you stay the night and fulfill a role a father should play is upsetting. The kid (by your admission) is a spoiled brat without any guidance... so it's no surprise that your woman couldn't care any less who her daughter identifies with as a male role model. In this case, the 20-something guy she's fucking and has no intentions of keeping around.

[RCITNet]

Slap the fuck out of her. And then slap the kid too. I discipline any and all kids. There is no grace period with me and that normally was the make it or break it part of whether I dated a girl or not. I'm not going to allow some punk ass kid act a fool around me simply because I'm trying to fuck their mom. If the mom didn't like it that was fine by me I can be a mother fucker elsewhere.

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[Saleen781]

WTF? 37 posts and no pic request? You guys are sleeping today!

[DON SVO]

WTF? 37 posts and no pic request? You guys are sleeping today!

Maybe we don't wanna see a pic of this grizzled, old wench?

[Blakeski]

Slap the fuck out of her. And then slap the kid too. I discipline any and all kids. There is no grace period with me and that normally was the make it or break it part of whether I dated a girl or not. I'm not going to allow some punk ass kid act a fool around me simply because I'm trying to fuck their mom. If the mom didn't like it that was fine by me I can be a mother fucker elsewhere.

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Whoa bro, I don't think it's justified to hit her kid, my voice does wonders alone. LMFAO