Should I Get Involved

[Mike69]

Just got a phone call from my mother who was pretty upset. She just found out that my Niece's boyfriend slap the shit out of her. No, she didn't deserve it. The dude is a controlling person & won't let her out of his sight. She is the only girl in our family & I'm pretty pissed off. She's only 19 years old & he is 22. They do have a child together. Part of me wants to bash his fuckin face in but part of me is telling me to not get involved. I was raised to never ever put your hands on a women in a violent way. What would you guys do in my situation?

[mstng86]

That is my El Camino: Have you tried hi....... oh nevermind.




Seriously though...Thats a hard choice. What do you plan on doing if you step in?

[Ratt]

I'd go talk to him about it, but it sounds like the authorities need to get involved. She has to help herself before anyone can help her in that situation.

[SMKR]

I'd opt to not get involved

[Sean88gt]

Teach her how to block.

[Unicorn Jeff]

I'd go talk to him about it, but it sounds like the authorities need to get involved. She has to help herself before anyone can help her in that situation.

x2 I'd try and talk to him and shit if you can contain yourself. If not get the authorities involved. I HATE guys that hit women unless they REALLY need to get knocked the fuck out lol.

[bcoop]

Don't get involved. She obviously promotes this behavior, and you'll only make yourself out to be the bad guy in the situation. She will get mad at you, he could file charges on you depending on what you do.

If she wanted a change, she wouldn't still be dating him.

[unkoricky]

try these options
a. talk to him
b. kick his ass
c. call the bash brothers

[DriveWayBuilt]

From experience I wouldn't get involved because no matter what if she is going to be with him they're going to be together and your just taking a risk of getting in trouble.

[Ted]

Where is her dad?

[Sean88gt]

try these options
a. talk to him
b. kick his ass
c. call the bash brothers

?

[DON SVO]

Talk to HER, not him. Like DRS2288 said, a lot of times people like your cousin have demolished self esteems and think that they're such shit, they deserve to be with a guy like him. It's crazy, but the baby daddy is a predator: his prey is weak-minded people he can control either with physical or mental abuse. Ask her what happened, ask if you can help. If she's cold towards you, realize and accept that she won't leave him until she finally gets the stones to do it.

Step in only if you feel her safety and her child's safety are at stake.

[Snatch Napkin]

If you're gonna handle it yourself, then you had better make him your bitch. Slap him around for a few hours until he's begging for mercy with tears in his eyes.

Anything less will result in him beating the shit out of her.

Otherwise, press charges and move her out.

[01-GATOR]

She should of stayed in the kitchen.

All playing aside, don't get involved. You'll get into an altercation with him and she'll go back to him, they always do.

[VaderTT]

She might turn it on you, most women that don't leave after the first beating, are fucked in the head.

I'd talk to her.