Well this sucks

[FreightTrain]

My wife and I found out we where pregnant about 3 weeks ago and it was confirmed by her hematologist. We were both really excited as this would be our first child, but she was ecstatic. Even though her being pregnant ment she had to give her self injections of lovenox everyday. She had her first appoint with her OBGYN today and we were excited to see our baby for the first time. She started bleeding a little last night and she called the doctor and she said it was probably normal and to not worry about it and since she already had an appointment today she would just see her then. Well we went to the appointment and we found out my wife was having a misscarriage and that was where the blood was coming from. It's really hard on my wife because she has some other medical issues caused by Doctor fuckups and she just feels that nothing goes her way.

[yellowstang]

That sucks, sorry to hear it.

[Forever_frost]

I'm sorry to hear that man. My exwife and I had several miscarriages and they are hard on everyone.

[TEAMJACOB]

Been there done that. Just remind her they are really common and its not her fault. If ya'll try again, wait a while before posting on Facebook or telling people until you are out of the first couple weeks (6wks or more) in case it happens again.

[Gtracer]

Damn dude, I honestly dont know what I would do. Try to comfort her and re-assure her that it is not her. The excitement probably does not help either though...made it just that much harder. Doesnt mean ya'll cant try again...

My sis had a miscarriage and then a year or so later, bam now I am an uncle.

[The King]

Sorry to hear that, my condolences to both you and your wife.

[mustang_revival]

Sorry to hear that. Be strong for your wife.

[ELVIS]

been through the same thing. sorry to hear.

god bless.

[FreightTrain]

Yeah her doctor was pretty good about explaining it was nothing my wife did, didn't do, or said that caused the miscarriage. She also said 40% to 50% of women have them with most not even knowing they were pregnant to begin with. She said most women think it's a heavy/late period.

[slow99]

Very sorry to hear that.

[94form2000z]

Sorry bro. Hope you guys recover from it quickly.

[jluv]

Sorry to hear that. Lots of friends and coworkers have had them. It's very common, unfortunately.

As awful as it is (and not to sound insensitive) it could be worse. One of my coworkers and his wife tried forever, and finally got pregnant with their first child about 10 months ago. Everything was going great, they had the baby showers, bought everything including furniture, decorated the nursery, etc etc. 5 days before delivery, the baby was healthy and good to go. They could have induced, but there was no reason. They were having daily check ups at that point. The very next day, no heartbeat. This was 4 days before the scheduled delivery date.

It irks me that situations like that even exist in our universe. What a giant kick in the nuts. It literally made me sick to my stomach for several hours after I heard, so I can only imagine being one of the parents and how tough it is.

That said, many of the people I know who had miscarriages ended up having very healthy babies not long after. Don't get discouraged. I know it's cliche to say that everything happens for a reason, but how you react to things drives your future actions, and those could be the actions that lead to joy and happiness for you. Now go try again! Good luck!

[junior]

Keep your head up and show her as much support as you can!

Don't be shy to try again

We went thru this about a year ago and just Wednesday we had our baby girl!

[Unicorn Jeff]

Sorry to hear that man.

Like Jluv said it happens a lot, I know a few people that have gone through 1 - 4 of them before actually able to give birth.

[Rafa]

Very sorry to hear. My family has been thru 3 of them. 2 were back to back. Hope everything works out and you two try again.