It takes work and lots of it. There are things that just irritate the living shit out of me regarding how she deals with things, but she also depends on me to help her through things she has a hard time going through. Same for me. I found out I can't just stonewall my way through my marriage. We have both come to realize we need each other and try to include each other on everything. Sure, she may look at things very differently, but she has also shed light on many things that I would have never thought of. It helps a lot she's far smarter than I am... Even though we've been together for over 20 years (married for almost 16) we are still learning.
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Originally posted by Jester View Posthttp://dallas.backpage.com/FemaleEsc...ne-21/16101172
Go home and bang the same chick every night or rent this little tart for a while and take out some frustrations on her hiney.......gee, let me think?
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Originally posted by roliath View Postgot a review of this little tart?
I actually met a damned good woman. She kills bad guys with me on MW3, shoots guns with me, and actually works for a living. She wants me to be happy and tries her best to make it happen. With that said, i already told her there will be a prenup this time around if we were to marry.
'You never know a woman until you meet her in court."May God give us strength and courage in the time of our darkest hours.
Semper Fi
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Congrats and good luck.
<-- going on 14 years here.
As for flowers, I refused to pay for them as we were doing an outdoor wedding. If y'all are planning/doing the wedding yourselves, this will be a good test of the relationship."Self-government won't work without self-discipline." - Paul Harvey
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Originally posted by Jester View PostAbsolute poppycock. Being in a marriage is about trust. You trust that the wife will not end up trapping you with another child just because she is a selfish person. "Honey, im on birthcontrol so its okay! I oromise I am getting a job!" "oooops, im pregnant, cant get a job for another 5 years!" "Sure glad I went to college to get a degree so I can be a stay at home mom! Sorry I lied to you sweety about actually getting off my lazy ass to help you support the famnily!"
To the OP marriage is what you make it. It can be great or it can be horrible. If you don't already live together than the 1st yr or two will be the hardest as you learn to live with another person. Before getting marriage make sure y'all agree on the major things that cause problems in marriages such as financial aspects, moral issues, etc.
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Originally posted by waycooljr View PostAll right. So hmm... yeah. About those flowers... ...
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Originally posted by talisman View Postlol, you're talking about marriage with some hooker already? Slow your roll, nygga!May God give us strength and courage in the time of our darkest hours.
Semper Fi
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