why is the family court system so corupt?

[JFurst]

Guy I work with was telling me his situation. Wife left him, filed, he has to pay 3k a month and he only takes home net 2800. If he cannot pay he could lose his drivers license and be sent to jail. He also has to give up half his retirement to her. What in the fuck? Men have no rights it seems sheesh.

[Lone Sailor]

Because men are the scapegoats for the judicial system.

[A_A_G]

Id leave the country

[Gear_Jammer]

He should have hired a decent attorney. If memory serves, it's 20% of gross income for 1 kid and up to 25% if he has 2 or more.

[JFurst]

Id leave the country

Wont they extradite you?

[talisman]

Madagascar. I'm just sayin'. English speaking non-extradition.

[Lone Sailor]

Madagascar. I'm just sayin'. English speaking non-extradition.

Researched much?

[TEAMJACOB]

I think texas is the worst. I think its funny that after they get all their money all year, they also get to claim the kid on their taxes and take home another 3 to 5k when dad don't get shit at the end of the year. I'll never leave my current Gf now that we have had a baby. cheaper to keep her

[SEB]

This country is so backwards!

Lets punish hard working people by charging them insane rate for insurance for them & their kids.Then lets give these lazy fucks Foodstamps & Insurance they dont have to pay a dime for & they have better insurance for their children then you and I. Then lets pay for their daycare also so they can go get high.

Then god for bid you get married & it doesnt work out. Well now lets slam the guy with child support & then make him pay for this insane costs of insurance all by himself. Then if he doesnt pay it. Lets take DL & let him incur more tickets for driving on a Suspended DL & dig himself in deep with the state for tickets & fines.

This country wants their citzens to fail I think

[Lason]

That guy is full of crap, there is no way a judge is going to make someone pay more than they bring home. Only way I can see that is if child support was set and then he had to take a drastic pay cut afterwards. In that case, he needs to lawyer up and try to get it lowered.

But yes, the family court system is heavily geared to helping women. I got primary custody of my kids in my divorce only because I wheeled and dealed with their mom who at the time was thinking very selfishly. Now, I walk on eggshells around her because the last thing I want is to back to court and her try to get custody of them. As much as I want to believe that the court wouldnt change it because I was there for them since day one I wouldnt be surprised if they said "oh, she wants them now so you have to give them up chump"

[talisman]

Researched much?

"If you've never contemplated suicide... Then you've never been in love. And if you've never contemplated murder... Then you've never been divorced."

-Christopher Titus

[TEAMJACOB]

This country is so backwards!

Lets punish hard working people by charging them insane rate for insurance for them & their kids.Then lets give these lazy fucks Foodstamps & Insurance they dont have to pay a dime for & they have better insurance for their children then you and I. Then lets pay for their daycare also so they can go get high.

Then god for bid you get married & it doesnt work out. Well now lets slam the guy with child support & then make him pay for this insane costs of insurance all by himself. Then if he doesnt pay it. Lets take DL & let him incur more tickets for driving on a Suspended DL & dig himself in deep with the state for tickets & fines.

This country wants their citzens to fail I think

That guy is full of crap, there is no way a judge is going to make someone pay more than they bring home. Only way I can see that is if child support was set and then he had to take a drastic pay cut afterwards. In that case, he needs to lawyer up and try to get it lowered.

But yes, the family court system is heavily geared to helping women. I got primary custody of my kids in my divorce only because I wheeled and dealed with their mom who at the time was thinking very selfishly. Now, I walk on eggshells around her because the last thing I want is to back to court and her try to get custody of them. As much as I want to believe that the court wouldnt change it because I was there for them since day one I wouldnt be surprised if they said "oh, she wants them now so you have to give them up chump"

All true. The hardedst part is excepting how bad you are gonna get fucked and know you can't do Shit to change it. I always thought, why not audit how the moms spend the money? I'm sure I've paid for a bunch of Shit that had Dick to do with my son. She lives at home with her parents for gods sake

[A_A_G]

Wont they extradite you?

How would they if they dont have a clue where you are with a new identity?

[DrGoogle]

He should have hired a decent attorney. If memory serves, it's 20% of gross income for 1 kid and up to 25% if he has 2 or more.

From someone that has been there, I think family law attorneys are glorified extortionist. I just finished up my divorce and custody case and if the judge was at all interested in the best interests of our child he would have had a different judgement.

[JFurst]

How would they if they dont have a clue where you are with a new identity?

Oh iI see. How would one obtain a new I'd?

And it wasn't bullshit I saw the paperwork since I called BS and lost $100 to him. It occurred in Washington fyi.