And now I'm alone...

[danielhv]

So, some of you may remember, wife decided to cheat on me, going through a divorce, etc... she emailed me today saying she leased an apartment, and will be moving her stuff out tomorrow...

I'm in a weird ass mood... I don't want to be with her cause she betrayed me, but hell I haven't been alone in over 9 years! You'd think I'd be all excited and shit, but no... just in a weird ass, quiet, semi-depressed mood. And to make things worse, I hate living here, have no friends here, no family here, etc. Just a job that pays me too much to quit.

I welcome 2012 with open arms; this year has straight up fucking sucked for me.

Off to the gym to continue trying to shed some fat.

[talisman]

It gets better. Find some hobbies or rekindle interest in old ones before you drive yourself crazy thinking about it. And get some friends fast.

[whitetrash]

It gets better. Find some hobbies or rekindle interest in old ones before you drive yourself crazy thinking about it. And get some friends fast.

this. try to join a softball or flag football league. you can meet people and get a workout/hobby in one.

[bjtheman1]

I'm going through the same, back alone after 7yrs. It's hard but not impossible, the gym has been very helpful.

[Jyard]

Sorry man, woman can be vicious bitches, but like to play like they're innocent. Maybe you should hit up some bars or something to meet some new people, or as said before, join an adult sport.

[94form2000z]

Keep your head up and keep up the gym work. It got me through some hard times with the same situation. It will turn around. Took about 2.5 years for me to really get over it and find someone else. There were plenty of attempts in between that though

[Couver]

It gets better. Find some hobbies or rekindle interest in old ones before you drive yourself crazy thinking about it. And get some friends fast.

This guy.. No matter what life goes on. Roll on move on and good luck.

[Osiris]

It gets better. Find some hobbies or rekindle interest in old ones before you drive yourself crazy thinking about it. And get some friends fast.

This!

Company was my best medicine when I was going through my BS.

[Txstang1]

yea, join a league, any league. pool, bowling, softbal, whatever. It really is a great way to make friends.

[jnobles06]

So, some of you may remember, wife decided to cheat on me, going through a divorce, etc... she emailed me today saying she leased an apartment, and will be moving her stuff out tomorrow...

I'm in a weird ass mood... I don't want to be with her cause she betrayed me, but hell I haven't been alone in over 9 years! You'd think I'd be all excited and shit, but no... just in a weird ass, quiet, semi-depressed mood. And to make things worse, I hate living here, have no friends here, no family here, etc. Just a job that pays me too much to quit.

I welcome 2012 with open arms; this year has straight up fucking sucked for me.

Off to the gym to continue trying to shed some fat.

this shit happened to me as well a few years back. she took it all. all i had was a bed and tv. it gets better. you just have to learn to be more social and put yourself back out there.

[YALE]

Still working on that RV-7? If that's not done, now's a great time to crank on it.

[grove rat]

i was with my ex for 8 1/2 years from age 16-24, i felt just like what you described. like others said keep busy and catch up with old friends/chicks

[Reefer Rae]

3f's Friends , family , fuckin . In that order , she made you miserable while together and now is your chance to focus on you and what's important to you .

[Broncojohnny]

The gym is a good place to be when it that situation, it will relieve your stress. If I were you I would try to move from there as soon as you can just to get a fresh start.

[Sleeper]

Still working on that RV-7? If that's not done, now's a great time to crank on it.

I was thinking the same thing.