Married - and now divorcing.

[SVT Lurch]

What if the SO is not on any of the mortgage documents?

Chili was in this same position. Even though his ex was not listed on the mortgage (he bought it outright in his name only), she is still listed on the title as Texas is a common property state. She is entitled to half because they were married.

In fact, he never changed it so if something were to happen to him, she would have rights to the house, not me.

Bingo. Except that (assuming you live there) that's your homestead and my understanding is that trumps community property, especially with you being married to him now (assuming you can prove Chili bought it with his own funds).

[bcoop]

That's to keep you in check, Leah.

Exactly. Besides, it's not like you had any of his kids.

[Nash B.]

That's to keep you in check, Leah.

[Leah]

What if the SO is not on any of the mortgage documents?

Chili was in this same position. Even though his ex was not listed on the mortgage (he bought it outright in his name only), she is still listed on the title as Texas is a common property state. She is entitled to half because they were married.

In fact, he never changed it so if something were to happen to him, she would have rights to the house, not me.

[Leah]

Board gains a new female member, and the fucking claws come out. I just want a front row seat to the jello wrestling.

Lol. You guys claim that every time, yet when I say the same shit to the guys on here, there isn't quite the same reaction. Can it, Coop.

I don't. That shit always stains my slacks.

You're doing it wrong.

[mstng86]

Very true. That almost always comes back to haunt people. I've seen it more times than I care to count.

What if the SO is not on any of the mortgage documents?

[Mike]

I love when people spew shit out of their mouths.

I don't. That shit always stains my slacks.

[SVT Lurch]

The only thing I can caution you against is a HOUSE. If you had a house in both of your names, you are eternally fucked unless a)it's in the divorce decree that one of you keeps it b)you're not upside down and can sell it. Otherwise, you're stuck with hoping your S/O can make the payments - and if they don't, the collectors call you - even if you havne't lived there in a year.. ask me how I knwo that one.

Very true. That almost always comes back to haunt people. I've seen it more times than I care to count.

[bcoop]

I love when people spew shit out of their mouths as if they are an expert on every situation, but yet have no idea what they're talking about.

Board gains a new female member, and the fucking claws come out. I just want a front row seat to the jello wrestling.

[turbostang]

You dont need a lawyer to exercise leverage. If he follows each step of my advice in order, she isn't going have a pot to piss in, let alone enough money to put a lawyer on retainer. With no kids, what else is there to argue about? Chances are only one of them can afford any housing property they own, split the cars, who gives a shit about the rest? Sure, I'm speaking out of my personal experience, but I walked away with nearly everything, and hardly any problems. Mental chess. Learn to play it.

QFT.

I did the same thing - no attorney, and only a few hundred bucks out of pocket (with help from Leah in fact).

The only thing I can caution you against is a HOUSE. If you had a house in both of your names, you are eternally fucked unless a)it's in the divorce decree that one of you keeps it b)you're not upside down and can sell it. Otherwise, you're stuck with hoping your S/O can make the payments - and if they don't, the collectors call you - even if you havne't lived there in a year.. ask me how I knwo that one.

[mstng86]

I love when people spew shit out of their mouths as if they are an expert on every situation, but yet have no idea what they're talking about.

Sounds like some teachers I know.

[Leah]

This. Its sad and pathetic. People don't know there are other things out there to solve your issues other than medication

OP its gonna be hard but dont let the bitch try to fuck with you. Clear your money, kick her ass out. If you have proof she cheated keep the proof just in case she tries and takes your ass to court, don't let her win.

First, medications are there because they can HELP a person become more in control and be able to solve issues. They are not the absolute solution, but can definitely assist a person in getting more level-headed and in the position to better analyze their current situation; therefore, coming up with more reasonable solutions. If a person is bi-polar should they be able to overcome the chemical imbalance without the assistance of medication? Are they too weak if they are unable to do so? True depression is a real condition and unless you can get them out of it to see the light at the end of the tunnel or think more rationally, their actions may be more detrimental to themselves and others.

Second, Texas is a no-fault state. It doesn't matter if he has video of her fucking the guy on his own kitchen counter-it's not going to change the outcome of the case.

I love when people spew shit out of their mouths as if they are an expert on every situation, but yet have no idea what they're talking about.

[Bassics]

You dont need a lawyer to exercise leverage. If he follows each step of my advice in order, she isn't going have a pot to piss in, let alone enough money to put a lawyer on retainer. With no kids, what else is there to argue about? Chances are only one of them can afford any housing property they own, split the cars, who gives a shit about the rest? Sure, I'm speaking out of my personal experience, but I walked away with nearly everything, and hardly any problems. Mental chess. Learn to play it.

So she then gets a lawyer for abused spouses, lets the taxpayers pick up the tab, and runs it out unnecessarily. Of course this could happen anyway.

[scootro]

I was in the office with an old supervisor of mine listening to him talk to a salesman about the dudes gf... supervisor told him "They're all fucked up, you just have to find one that's a little less fucked up than the rest".. funny but true.

that's so freaken true!!! lol..

[bcoop]

lol marriage

women are stupid.