Married - and now divorcing.

[joes01bullitt]

pics?


bullshit aside, good thing you didn't have kids....

[mustangguy289]

Just be glad it happened before kids. It sucks now but to continue with it would be worse. Sounds like you have done all you can do to make it work.

[mustangguy289]

You came to the right place.

[dsrtuckteezy]

dude, you should be thankful for all of this...you got rid of a crazy one

[Big Dad]

You are in the middle of one big lie ..

Going to be rough for awhile, don't give her the satisfaction of knowing she owns you ..


Good luck

[Nash B.]

Hmmm...have you tried hitting her?

[Binky]

Ooh
Well, I remember the time
Well, let me freshen your mind
You told me
David, I, I need, I think it's time I have a little space
So then I try to be the understanding man
You just call a woody allen character about the whole thing
I said that's cool, I understand, I pack my bags
And get outta your face

Then for three days on end
She was in bed with my best friend
Discussing every problem
She cried, she begged, David, we didn't really do anything
He's a really understanding guy, and he really just listens
And I said
Baby, you gave him head
God damn

[racrguy]

So, I made it a whole 1 year and 2 weeks (woohoo) since we got married. I've been with this girl for a little over 5 years, living together 4.5 of those. Couple of months ago she goes to the doctor, mentions issues with anxiety, they prescribe Cymbalta to her, and the issues began. All of a sudden she is un-happy... wants time alone, I dont do this, I don't do that, etc. I try to reason, explain I'd change whatever I am lacking in to make her happy, offered to go to marriage counseling, etc. She refused counseling, refuses to get off the Cymbalta, refuses to stay around and work on our issues. I make changes anyway (get off work at a decent time, help out more around the house, pay more attention to her, etc.)

Instead, she wants time alone. She goes back to Dallas for a weekend, which turned into 4 days. Does this 3 weeks in a row, leaving me at the apartment 5 hours away wondering wtf is going on. All communication stops, email/txt only and not much at that, maybe once per weekend or so. Then I find out the last time she was supposedly in Dallas, that she was actually an hour north of me (Im in Little Rock,AR) in a hotel with another dude. I confront her, she claims she just wanted to get away, they did nothing but sit around and drink / go out to eat (yea fuggin right).

So here I am, heart broken, confused, hurt, pissed, angry, all of the above. Several things bother me here, why couldn't I convince her to stop taking the medication long enough to make SURE her feelings truly were HER feelings? Why would she choose this friggin idot over ME?! She told me that he KNEW she was married (which shows he has some outstanding morals) and then made HER pay for the fuckin hotel room! (LMAO) WTF!

Man it sucks, I never EVER EEEEEVVVVAAAARRRR would have thought she would do something like this, and I can't help but believe that damn medication is the cause of this shit. But now it's too late, even if she changed her mind, got off the pills, and decided she wanted to work on it, I cant. I will never trust her again, so I have to cut my losses and move on.

But this bothers me so much. I spent my whole life not wanting to get married, then I marry her, and I was happy that I did so. I spent my whole life not wanting kids, and that changed with her (allthough we never had any (thank god now!), we were trying.)

I just don't get it...

While divorces appear to suck (never been through one) Welcome back to the land of more discretionary income!

[krazy kris]

bitches are crazy
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[mstng86]

Sucks sir. Sorry to hear. FWIW, I doubt the pills are driving her decision making. I would never let a woman back into my life if she cheated on me.

Pics?

[Bassics]

wow, that is a new one.

I wonder if anyone on this board has any advice? Probably not.

[danielhv]

So, I made it a whole 1 year and 2 weeks (woohoo) since we got married. I've been with this girl for a little over 5 years, living together 4.5 of those. Couple of months ago she goes to the doctor, mentions issues with anxiety, they prescribe Cymbalta to her, and the issues began. All of a sudden she is un-happy... wants time alone, I dont do this, I don't do that, etc. I try to reason, explain I'd change whatever I am lacking in to make her happy, offered to go to marriage counseling, etc. She refused counseling, refuses to get off the Cymbalta, refuses to stay around and work on our issues. I make changes anyway (get off work at a decent time, help out more around the house, pay more attention to her, etc.)

Instead, she wants time alone. She goes back to Dallas for a weekend, which turned into 4 days. Does this 3 weeks in a row, leaving me at the apartment 5 hours away wondering wtf is going on. All communication stops, email/txt only and not much at that, maybe once per weekend or so. Then I find out the last time she was supposedly in Dallas, that she was actually an hour north of me (Im in Little Rock,AR) in a hotel with another dude. I confront her, she claims she just wanted to get away, they did nothing but sit around and drink / go out to eat (yea fuggin right).

So here I am, heart broken, confused, hurt, pissed, angry, all of the above. Several things bother me here, why couldn't I convince her to stop taking the medication long enough to make SURE her feelings truly were HER feelings? Why would she choose this friggin idot over ME?! She told me that he KNEW she was married (which shows he has some outstanding morals) and then made HER pay for the fuckin hotel room! (LMAO) WTF!

Man it sucks, I never EVER EEEEEVVVVAAAARRRR would have thought she would do something like this, and I can't help but believe that damn medication is the cause of this shit. But now it's too late, even if she changed her mind, got off the pills, and decided she wanted to work on it, I cant. I will never trust her again, so I have to cut my losses and move on.

But this bothers me so much. I spent my whole life not wanting to get married, then I marry her, and I was happy that I did so. I spent my whole life not wanting kids, and that changed with her (allthough we never had any (thank god now!), we were trying.)

I just don't get it...