Need some cheering up guys, cuz im lost!

[Cooter]

And there is your problem. You still give her too much credit when in reality, she is a fucking loser. Keep in mind, SHE chose to leave a good situation, SHE chose to break a commitment, SHE chose to push you out of the lives of your children.

Sorry to put it this way man but women like that don't deserve to be raising children...especially boys. She will ruin them without them having you around as a mentor.

Unless you were beating her or them, there is ZERO reason you shouldn't be fighting for custody. If she is stupid enough, crazy enough or selfish enough to leave a good/strong marital relationship, she shouldn't have the right to raise your kids to do the same thing she did.

Worthless, insane and stupid women should be treated as such. Protect your kids.

pretty sure he alluded to the fact that HE broke the commitment first then tried to make it all better...

[Mychael101]

And there is your problem. You still give her too much credit when in reality, she is a fucking loser. Keep in mind, SHE chose to leave a good situation, SHE chose to break a commitment, SHE chose to push you out of the lives of your children.

Sorry to put it this way man but women like that don't deserve to be raising children...especially boys. She will ruin them without them having you around as a mentor.

Unless you were beating her or them, there is ZERO reason you shouldn't be fighting for custody. If she is stupid enough, crazy enough or selfish enough to leave a good/strong marital relationship, she shouldn't have the right to raise your kids to do the same thing she did.

Worthless, insane and stupid women should be treated as such. Protect your kids.

Can a brother get a AMEN!

[bluecollar]

Going through a separation at the moment as well man. We have a 2yr old which makes it worse.

All I can say is you are not alone, that's for sure. Things will get better. I have always been a firm believer that as long as you try your best in every situation, you'll be ok. You may not realize it now, or even in a year, but you'll be ok. I tried everything I knew to make our situation work, but it was ultimately her choice to leave. At least I can go to sleep at night knowing that I gave it all I had.

[Nash B.]

pretty sure he alluded to the fact that HE broke the commitment first then tried to make it all better...

Then she's stupid for taking him back twice!

[aggie97]

pretty sure he alluded to the fact that HE broke the commitment first then tried to make it all better...

well, i may have missed that part...still, the epidemic of young women "changing their minds" is getting WAY out of hand.

[Hicompression]

Deja-Vu?

I'm experiencing deja-vu over here. Is the this the wife that left Jester before as posted on the old Canadian website? You know the one where they separated and Jester went out and got some strange-on while they were separated but still married. If so...they'll be back together again. Just like last time. I've seen this episode before.

[CWO]

Without reading a single response:

my advice is to delete this thread

[CRASH]

I hear galvaston has a nude beach

Is that anywhere close to Galveston ?

[smokey3550]

You'll find someone better. In the not-so-distant future, she'll just be the woman you have to deal with to see your kids. Be sad. Be pissed. But then realize you've done your part to make the situation better and that isn't enough. Finally, get yourself emotionally detached... as soon as you can. It will only help.

Then get excited about finding some new pussy. Once you start grinnin and cheezin at some new chick and texting stupid shit at 3am you'll be long past this period.

And hey man, you know you can always come to DFW to hang out. You have real friends up here. I know the money's good, so enjoy it and save a shitload. But that oil barge work is a young man's game, you need to be making your escape plan too.

Give me a call dude.

^ What he said! Hurts like hell for a while, no way around it. But in the back of your mind, know that the pain fades, life comes back, and if you have the right attitude and learn from mistakes you'll do better and be happier.

[Jester]

And there is your problem. You still give her too much credit when in reality, she is a fucking loser. Keep in mind, SHE chose to leave a good situation, SHE chose to break a commitment, SHE chose to push you out of the lives of your children.

Sorry to put it this way man but women like that don't deserve to be raising children...especially boys. She will ruin them without them having you around as a mentor.

Unless you were beating her or them, there is ZERO reason you shouldn't be fighting for custody. If she is stupid enough, crazy enough or selfish enough to leave a good/strong marital relationship, she shouldn't have the right to raise your kids to do the same thing she did.

Worthless, insane and stupid women should be treated as such. Protect your kids.

Nah, she is not a loser.....she was married to a loser for years. I was abusive to her,I cheated on her, and I neglected her. Then one day, I changed completely. I just changed over night at the drop of a hat. I was no longer pissed off at the world, I started to care for my wife, and I started trying my best to be a good man that she needed. This happened about a year ago. I developed a relationship with my mom, and I hated her for 20 years. I found God(yep, seriously...lol) Everyone around me could see that I just changed for the better. My wife was used to the old me and refused to let her guard down and get to know who I am now. A lot of shit happened in the last year and it has made me a better person. I havent slept with another woman yet because I still love my wife very much and miss sleeping with her. She is a good mother and I am happy with her raising my kids. Just wish she would have gotten to know who i am today and been there to help me on my feet when i was down.

[Ruffdaddy]

Nah, she is not a loser.....she was married to a loser for years. I was abusive to her,I cheated on her, and I neglected her. Then one day, I changed completely. I just changed over night at the drop of a hat. I was no longer pissed off at the world, I started to care for my wife, and I started trying my best to be a good man that she needed. This happened about a year ago. I developed a relationship with my mom, and I hated her for 20 years. I found God(yep, seriously...lol) Everyone around me could see that I just changed for the better. My wife was used to the old me and refused to let her guard down and get to know who I am now. A lot of shit happened in the last year and it has made me a better person. I havent slept with another woman yet because I still love my wife very much and miss sleeping with her. She is a good mother and I am happy with her raising my kids. Just wish she would have gotten to know who i am today and been there to help me on my feet when i was down.

Sounds like Boyd crowder from justified...haha

[Jester]

Sounds like Boyd crowder from justified...haha

No clue what that is.

[mustangguy289]

Sounds like Boyd crowder from justified...haha

Who let you back in?

[Cooter]

Nah, she is not a loser.....she was married to a loser for years. I was abusive to her,I cheated on her, and I neglected her. Then one day, I changed completely. I just changed over night at the drop of a hat. I was no longer pissed off at the world, I started to care for my wife, and I started trying my best to be a good man that she needed. This happened about a year ago. I developed a relationship with my mom, and I hated her for 20 years. I found God(yep, seriously...lol) Everyone around me could see that I just changed for the better. My wife was used to the old me and refused to let her guard down and get to know who I am now. A lot of shit happened in the last year and it has made me a better person. I havent slept with another woman yet because I still love my wife very much and miss sleeping with her. She is a good mother and I am happy with her raising my kids. Just wish she would have gotten to know who i am today and been there to help me on my feet when i was down.

shit happens man... if it wasn't meant to be, no amount of trying on your part will make it so.

FORWARD!

[mstng86]

So whats next? Are you going to grab a bite to eat? Go to the range?