Need some cheering up guys, cuz im lost!

[Jester]

Well, about a month ago, my wife left me. I loved her, and still do, very much. She just decided to give it a go without me. I made many mistakes in the past that i am not going to go into, but i was doing my best to try and correct all of it. My entire life has now been turned upside down. I am back in Houston area and about to be sitting back on a barge making that good money. Might get to see my kids two days a month if I am lucky and my finances will let me. I am 33 and getting older every day. Not sure what is next for me. About to get an apartment and start a completely seperate life from the one I knew. So what happens now, guys?

[ARIX]

You have no choice but to move on. You can't make her feel the same way right now so adapt to your new surroundings-life and make the best of it. Dwelling on what if's is only gonna make things worst for you.

[propellerhead]

Nothing. Life goes on. 20 years from now you'll look back at this day and say "What the fuck was I so worried about?"

[Jester]

Wish I could fast forward 20 years.....lol
I tell you what, it has taken every ounce of energy I have to keep from becoming a friggin alcoholic. A few beers or whiskey and I instantly feel better.....numbs the pain. I can honestly understand now how people let the bottle get the best of them.

[bcoop]

It gets better. Trust me.

[propellerhead]

Think about the 17 year olds who think it's the end of the world because their daddy didn't buy them the cool car they wanted. What would you say to them?

[Ruffdaddy]

Start workin out...clean up your physique. Forget about the lady...you have a great opportunity now. You are single! It should be fun. Best of luck...bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks. Also start stacking that paper.

[Mychael101]

It gets better. Trust me.

This.

You take the time to make peace with what has happened then you put it behind you. Many of us have been where you are right now. Chin up, sir!

[talisman]

It gets better. Trust me.

Word up. Find something to keep yourself occupied with. A year from now, none of this will even matter and you'll be back on your feet.

[78X]

Well, about a month ago, my wife left me. I loved her, and still do, very much. She just decided to give it a go without me. I made many mistakes in the past that i am not going to go into, but i was doing my best to try and correct all of it. My entire life has now been turned upside down. I am back in Houston area and about to be sitting back on a barge making that good money. Might get to see my kids two days a month if I am lucky and my finances will let me. I am 33 and getting older every day. Not sure what is next for me. About to get an apartment and start a completely seperate life from the one I knew. So what happens now, guys?

sorry to hear, you need some of this stat

[Jester]

Think about the 17 year olds who think it's the end of the world because their daddy didn't buy them the cool car they wanted. What would you say to them?

I would tell them to eat a huge diseased dick and then unfold the story of how my life has slowly and miserably fallen apart no matter what i did to prevent it and that at 17 you can still be anything you want to be. You have no kids, no real job or financial worries, you are not stuck in a dead end job because of the bad decisions you made when you were there age, and then feed them my dirty oil covered dingdong! lol

[trblshooter]

Stings for sure...one idea/concept has really given me comfort when that shit happened to me, in the end does it really fucking matter? Have fun dude don't stress over things you can't control...other people and their actions first. You can dwell on it beat yourself up whatever but the root cause has nothing to do with you.

[ARIX]

Found a new calling? Dirty Ding Dong feeder.

[Cooter]

fuck it, there was a reason you sabotaged it in the past...

enjoy your knew life!

don't let that bottle kill you. God made more than one woman, I promise you

[talisman]

I would tell them to eat a huge diseased dick and then unfold the story of how my life has slowly and miserably fallen apart no matter what i did to prevent it and that at 17 you can still be anything you want to be. You have no kids, no real job or financial worries, you are not stuck in a dead end job because of the bad decisions you made when you were there age, and then feed them my dirty oil covered dingdong! lol

While I know my recent situation is a little different because I don't have the burden of children, there is no such thing as too old to start over. I mean, you're already doing it. You could go eat a bullet, and prove me wrong, but for what? Some worthless bitch that didn't even have the balls to face you about it, and ran away while you were out of town? Fuck her. You're going to stand back up again and you're going to find new joys in life, and you're going to be looking in that rearview mirror a year from now asking yourself what the fuck you were thinking, and why did you put up with it for so long. You're going to have more free time, more money, you're going to be driving a car you like and be balls deep in the hobbies you've neglected, maybe finally get that 56 Chevy on the road, and you're going to be loving every bit of it.