Need some cheering up guys, cuz im lost!

[Jester]

story?

Booze + 9mm + Blake thinking it was empty= blown away chandelier. lol

[SlowLX]

Sorry buddy, it sucks. That being said sometimes shit don't work out, don't turn out like my dipshit brother and have 2 of your 5 marriages be to the same person.

[Jester]

Your wife didn't even come out of the bedroom to check on you when Blake shot the chandelier in your dining room, dude. She pretty much avoided all of us, not that I can 100% blame her with the freakshow we all brought, but usually s/os try to at least get to know their mates friends or even say "hi" to them. That spoke volumes about her character to me. And it's very possible that I'm just being a one sided dick about it, but that's my honest take on her personality.

She didnt like my friends all that much because i spent so much time with them. Nothing against yall. She just wasnt sure how to relate to us. Wish she would have tried too, though.

[FATHERFORD]

Blake shot the chandelier in your dining room

story?

Your wife didn't even come out of the bedroom to check on you when Blake shot the chandelier in your dining room, dude. She pretty much avoided all of us, not that I can 100% blame her with the freakshow we all brought, but usually s/os try to at least get to know their mates friends or even say "hi" to them. That spoke volumes about her character to me. And it's very possible that I'm just being a one sided dick about it, but that's my honest take on her personality.

[stangin4lyfe]

Yeah, I did have that attitude. I used to get into a pissing contest with guys like davbrucas because of the stupid shit they say. Take for instance the "I wouldnt be whining about it" comment. Well, until you have ever fucking been in my shoes you have no fucking clue just what you would do. And since when does asking for help from people you have come to know over the years been considered whining? It's just comments like that used to make me drop a bitch, but I have grown up and moved on. Now I just shake my head and say to myself "whatever you say tough guy."

Don't worry about others and their comments, just keep your head up man.
It sounds like you have made some great changes in your life and you need to keep on that path, with her or without.
Not all women are the same and there sure are a lot of them out there!
Most importantly...Always be there for your children(even if you have to sometimes be the mature one in certain situations).

[Special K]

Yeah, I did have that attitude. I used to get into a pissing contest with guys like davbrucas because of the stupid shit they say. Take for instance the "I wouldnt be whining about it" comment. Well, until you have ever fucking been in my shoes you have no fucking clue just what you would do. And since when does asking for help from people you have come to know over the years been considered whining? It's just comments like that used to make me drop a bitch, but I have grown up and moved on. Now I just shake my head and say to myself "whatever you say tough guy."

Its funny how differently people see themselves vs how others see them. Although I never knew you or your wife very well, I always preferred your personality type to hers and appreciated the no bullshit side. You were always fun and gave the impression of being sincere. Oddly, I NEVER would have thought you the type to cheat, all bark no bite, and god knows I can't throw stones nor condone that behavior! But some things change somehow... I had 15+ years of shitty relationships.... mostly self inflicted but something changed/snapped when Wade and I started dating and I am a much different person (moslty just old probably!). Anyone that has known me longer than that would understand .

[Jester]

Jester, board nonsense aside, I'm sorry to hear you're suffering sir. I hope it gets better for you soon. I can't imagine losing my girls, I'd fall apart.

Yeah, and she let me know today that my 5 year old has the flu and is coughing bad enough that he is getting his chest x-rayed today. I know he is miserable and scared and I cant be there to hold him. It's kickin my ass.

[Steve]

Jester, board nonsense aside, I'm sorry to hear you're suffering sir. I hope it gets better for you soon. I can't imagine losing my girls, I'd fall apart.

[Jester]

I'm not meaning to sound hard about your situation, and I don't know you or your wife at all. I do remember a lot of your posts' and comments from the old board coming across as cold and mean-spirited. Kind of a "fuck you if you don't like it" attitude. It sounds like it just caught up with you. I'm an old guy, and the one thing I do know, is payback is indeed a motherfucker. All wounds do not heal. All is NOT forgiven. I'm sorry it cost' you your family, but move on and live and learn. In all sincerity, take care.

Yeah, I did have that attitude. I used to get into a pissing contest with guys like davbrucas because of the stupid shit they say. Take for instance the "I wouldnt be whining about it" comment. Well, until you have ever fucking been in my shoes you have no fucking clue just what you would do. And since when does asking for help from people you have come to know over the years been considered whining? It's just comments like that used to make me drop a bitch, but I have grown up and moved on. Now I just shake my head and say to myself "whatever you say tough guy."

[Vertnut]

I'm not meaning to sound hard about your situation, and I don't know you or your wife at all. I do remember a lot of your posts' and comments from the old board coming across as cold and mean-spirited. Kind of a "fuck you if you don't like it" attitude. It sounds like it just caught up with you. I'm an old guy, and the one thing I do know, is payback is indeed a motherfucker. All wounds do not heal. All is NOT forgiven. I'm sorry it cost' you your family, but move on and live and learn. In all sincerity, take care.

[stock85]

there's nothing wrong w/ believing in god... as long as you aren't hitching yourself to some bullshit religion.

if you believe in god, don't question his path for you.

so you cheated on a woman and you learned... you love her and you'll always love her, and you got some great kids out of it. WIN!!!!!!!!!!!

move FORWARD and just live your life man!!!!!!!! She's not going to be out of it... nor are your kids...

but you can't dwell on the past. You need to better yourself. Doesn't mean you have to fuck every woman you meet. Doesn't you have to fuck any of them. Just better yourself, and your life will get better!

This. Speaking from experience, it does get better.....took me about a year. The problem with this is that you will HAVE to deal with her for the kids. It's not like a break-up, where you can just move on and not have to see her. Everytime you see her for a bit, it's going to bring back memories. Be happy for the kids. Be happy for yourself. It's been a year for me and the ex see's that I'm now happy, dropped 40 pounds and knows I'm seeing someone.......and it's killing her.........but I did everything I could during the divorce to prove my love to her.......she still signed the papers........

You will ALWAYS love that woman.......she is the mother of your kids........but the bottom line is that she up and left......not only taking her out of your life, but also taking the limited time with your kids..........all that matters now, is that you HAVE to be there for the kiddos.......you are their only daddy...........

Anyway....my .02.

[The King]

Oh, yea, that's the answer. Not.

It can be, for the weak-minded.

[03trubluGT]

sorry to hear, you need some of this stat

Oh, yea, that's the answer. Not.

[bcoop]

however, the difference is I wouldnt be whining about it on the internet.

Well that I can agree with