Need some cheering up guys, cuz im lost!

[Jester]

So jester what do you look like? Stats?

Everybody tells me I look like the lead actor in The Hurt Locker....and I have the same build......basically, I am the guy from The Hurt Locker. lol

this guy



Not a heart throb, but not bad....lol

[idrivea4banger]

So jester what do you look like? Stats?

You going to give him a reacharound?

[bjtheman1]

So jester what do you look like? Stats?

LMAO, sorry just looks funny as hell. 33/M/Houston (answered for him)

[78X]

So jester what do you look like? Stats?

[TonyMCev]

live like you did as a young buck pfc in the barracks...

[Jester]

lol, I know I can always find love at dfwmustangs! lol
While I dont look at her as a "cunt bitch ass whore"(she is a great mother to my boys), I do really appreciate the kind words, guys. I know I can always get some good honest responses from some people I respect(along with dildo reponses from newbie cheeznuts). Not really into jumping into the sack with a bunch of women because I just dont have the energy right now and I really cant fake giving a shit about what they talk about at the moment.lol

[aggie97]

dude, my ex left the same way back in 2006 and I found the bottom of nearly every liquor bottle in Dallas. Did stupid shit, drove drunk as hell, nearly pissed my life away in the gutter and came close to dead more times than I should count.

I felt the same way you described but it took a while. You MUST get past the Bullshit of thinking you need her, or someone in your life to be happy. Make a list of things that make you happy and don't require shit from anyone else. Then DO THEM. Don't bog yourself down with women for a while until you learn how to point out the past mistakes that got you where you were.

Then and only then, should you even consider getting serious. I made a decision to just start living life for me. I dated, fucked and threw away a lot of women who were all psycho for a reason. If you start dating women who are in the 30's and still single. Wrap it, fuck em and run. There is a reason they are single. Do your homework on the next woman but don't go out expecting to find her. Hell, do what I did and steal one from another man. I'm not proud of it but I found the right girl this time....rather she found me and I found happiness.

there are hours of rambling I could give you as this problem of women just leaving has become an epidemic of HUGE proportions. Be thankful that it happened at age 31 and not 51. You have plenty of time to rebuild your life without that cunt bitch ass whore that chose to leave a good situation. Nothing you can do about her insanity and bad decision making but look back and be thankful she will no longer be a part of your life.

[Cobraman]

Think about the 17 year olds who think it's the end of the world because their daddy didn't buy them the cool car they wanted. What would you say to them?

Wouldn't know

[Frank]

Sorry man. Things will get better. You have a big network of friends here at least if you need to vent.

[Sean88gt]

Shit Levi....you need to avoid relationships. It's like a yo-yo for you that throws your emotions up and rips them down. Find peace my friend.

[Mychael101]

Wish I could fast forward 20 years.....lol
I tell you what, it has taken every ounce of energy I have to keep from becoming a friggin alcoholic. A few beers or whiskey and I instantly feel better.....numbs the pain. I can honestly understand now how people let the bottle get the best of them.

Stay away from the booze.
"bottles, a bottle can hold a delicious beverage... or you could stick it up your ass and throw yourself down a flight of stairs and bleed to death."

[46Tbird]

What kills me is how cold she is. I mean, she hates me. I miss being that cocky asshole that used to not give a shit. I would have been balls deep in some honey and not thinking twice about it. But it is different now. Tried to be a good man for her, but just wasnt good enough I guess.

You'll find someone better. In the not-so-distant future, she'll just be the woman you have to deal with to see your kids. Be sad. Be pissed. But then realize you've done your part to make the situation better and that isn't enough. Finally, get yourself emotionally detached... as soon as you can. It will only help.

Then get excited about finding some new pussy. Once you start grinnin and cheezin at some new chick and texting stupid shit at 3am you'll be long past this period.

And hey man, you know you can always come to DFW to hang out. You have real friends up here. I know the money's good, so enjoy it and save a shitload. But that oil barge work is a young man's game, you need to be making your escape plan too.

Give me a call dude.

[78X]

And get a vasectomy, or stock up on rubbers. The last thing you want is two psycho bitches to be tied to for the rest of your life.

or get really good at this:

[Jester]

Vasectomy is happening the second I am back on insurance.

If she doesn't give a shit, then neither should you.

Now go get some pussy. Quickly. And a lot of it. And for the love of God, leave it alone this time.

And get a vasectomy, or stock up on rubbers. The last thing you want is two psycho bitches to be tied to for the rest of your life.