proper way to let someone down

[emg]

tell her you didnt mean to mislead her but your married. then if she's cool with it, tell her you'll text her when your not around your wife....bam! now she's a fuck buddy.

if she's not cool with it, she'll leave you alone.

[lowthreeohz]

Just be nice about it, be cool, and like someone said maybe she'll be cool and stick around for some late night tip. you know, triple six style.

[Big A]

There's no way to get away from this without looking like an asshole in her eyes. Your best bet is fast, quick, honesty. And don't do it via text either.


Call her tonight and let her know that although you had a great time this past weekend, anything beyond that is too much for you at this time and you want to be fair and upfront RIGHT AWAY with her about your lack of intentions for a relationship.

Do not say "It's not you, it's me".... because it's obvious it's BOTH or you wouldn't be freaked by her text LOL

Though I agree with you on a humanatarian aspect, calling isn't necessary. If he cares about her feelings so much, then he would date her.

A fuck is a fuck. Wanna move on? Ignore. She's the one making it into more than it ever was.

[bcoop]

"hey, totalt random question. Did you happen to notice any new bumps around your vag this morning? Last week, I left the bar with this dirty skank, and ever since, there's been this red bump that keeps getting bigger. Ahh, no big deal. Probably just an ingrown hair, so, want to meet up for dinner?"

[Randy]

There's no way to get away from this without looking like an asshole in her eyes. Your best bet is fast, quick, honesty. And don't do it via text either.


Call her tonight and let her know that although you had a great time this past weekend, anything beyond that is too much for you at this time and you want to be fair and upfront RIGHT AWAY with her about your lack of intentions for a relationship.

Do not say "It's not you, it's me".... because it's obvious it's BOTH or you wouldn't be freaked by her text LOL

weird... i normally just say..... "its not me, it's you" through text of course they get the hint after that.... avoids you having to hear them do that fake crying BS.....

[roliath]

I'm getting ready for work, but I think she got my number from one of my friends. I think, no one manned up to telling me they gave it to her which makes me think they did.

Ha, she's calling me right now.

[dsrtuckteezy]

wife her..

[roliath]

wife her..

It wouldn't work out, when I told her to make me breakfast in the morning she said no.

[MutherjuggZ]

Though I agree with you on a humanatarian aspect, calling isn't necessary. If he cares about her feelings so much, then he would date her.

A fuck is a fuck. Wanna move on? Ignore. She's the one making it into more than it ever was.

I dunno why I think calling is the right answer, I just feel that this world is already so impersonal with all this technology... one phone call could mean the difference between a peaceful ending or pissed off psycho stalker.


I've never been turned down via text, but I could only imagine how hurtful that must be.


Ignoring her every text and call WILL eventually get rid of her as well.... but he'll get a whole lot more calls/texts before she gets the hint so he's gotta be willing to do all the ignoring and not become irritated if that's the path he so chooses.

[MutherjuggZ]

It wouldn't work out, when I told her to make me breakfast in the morning she said no.

You let her stay the night?!?!?! You deserve to get texted to death just for that!

[roliath]

You let her stay the night?!?!?! You deserve to get texted to death just for that!

i'm no one pump chump, it just happened. (edit) she must love my d.

rookie move! i know!

[MutherjuggZ]

i'm no one pump chump, it just happened. (edit) she must love my d.

rookie move! i know!

Then just make it clear to her that you never intended for it to get as far as it did, and although it was a great time.... it's not what you're looking for. Then simply apologize if she feels mislead in anyway....and then again remind her you had no intentions of misleading or taking advantage....it just happened.


Then hang up the phone with the tip of your penis

[Big A]

I dunno why I think calling is the right answer, I just feel that this world is already so impersonal with all this technology... one phone call could mean the difference between a peaceful ending or pissed off psycho stalker.


I've never been turned down via text, but I could only imagine how hurtful that must be.


Ignoring her every text and call WILL eventually get rid of her as well.... but he'll get a whole lot more calls/texts before she gets the hint so he's gotta be willing to do all the ignoring and not become irritated if that's the path he so chooses.

That makes me think of the soft drink commercial that I've seen a few times (a few years ago). Couple on a first date, at her doorstep. He asks for a kiss/nightcap, and she tells him straight-up no. "Don't you wish that the rest of life is this refreshing?"

For someone that you've dated for more than a few weeks, a call is ncessary (unless you have no balls), but a one-time screw?

Ignore is the "pussy" way out, but the only true goodbye, is no goodbye at all.

[bcoop]

What the fuck is this estrogen fest going on?


Seriously? Apologize for misleading her? Are you fucking kidding me? He dragged a slut home from the bar. How the fuck did he mislead her? I'm certain he drug her home under the guise of wearing her pussy out. And he did just that.


How the fuck did he mislead her?

[mstng86]

What the fuck is this estrogen fest going on?


Seriously? Apologize for misleading her? Are you fucking kidding me? He dragged a slut home from the bar. How the fuck did he mislead her? I'm certain he drug her home under the guise of wearing her pussy out. And he did just that.


How the fuck did he mislead her?

He may have inadvertently said "I love you"