if you see some one struggling with something.........

[SNEAKY]

like working on a car, painting a wall, looking for something online......ect.
do you sit there and watch them, or do you help them?
i hate to see somebody struggling when i can help, but i was told its an asshole thing to do. that i should let them figure it out on there own. if they want help, they will ask. what about y'all?

[grove rat]

depends on who it is, what it is they need help on and if i have the time/knowledge to help them

i will admit i dont help strangers out as much as i used to for 2 reasons: mofos are crazy nowadays and i just dont trust them. if you try to help but something gets messed up along the way they will instantly blame you

if it's family or friends i will offer my help if they need/want it. if its something simple then i will just let them figure it out on their own...unless they start really having trouble or start getting upset cause they cant figure it out(women)

[78X]

If they are hot I like to watch

[HarrisonTX]

I just rolled by a dude under his ranger in a parking lot. I would have enjoyed helping had I not been with the girl

[trblshooter]

I inherited this trait from my father. If he didn't do it it's not done right. I'm the exact same way so picture the two of us building a fence together or putting headers on a car. These projects can turn ugly quick.

[SEB]

I went today to go see Adrian for lunch at Childrens Medical City & there was this old guy who was big. His poor wife tried to help him up out the bench, but she was tiny & this guy was really struggling. I offered my hand & asked him if he needed help & he gladly took it & helped him out of the bench.

I do not look foward to getting old. I think my generation is the last generation with any commen courtsey

[talisman]

Why would I help some stranger paint a wall?

[suckerdin]

Why would I help some stranger paint a wall?

lol.

[Stroked87]

I will usually offer my help, but I will also try to asses the situation and any negative outcomes before offering.

[Taylor]

like working on a car, painting a wall, looking for something online......ect.
do you sit there and watch them, or do you help them?
i hate to see somebody struggling when i can help, but i was told its an asshole thing to do. that i should let them figure it out on there own. if they want help, they will ask. what about y'all?

like when people struggle with there, their and they're?

[SNEAKY]

i am not talking about strangers. i should have made myself more clear. insert wife/co-worker/friend/sibling/parent/child/grand parent/boss/employee/frined of a friend/some body you have a mild aquatinance with/neighbor/

[Leah]

I will help hold doors, pick something up if they drop something, carry something, etc., but paint your own damn walls.

[Stroked87]

i am not talking about strangers. i should have made myself more clear. insert wife/co-worker/friend/sibling/parent/child/grand parent/boss/employee/frined of a friend/some body you have a mild aquatinance with/neighbor/

Well, in this case then absolutely I will ALWAYS offer my help. Whether I want to do it or not it is still the right thing to do, IMO.

[EW]

[sneaky]mooooooove!!!![/sneaky]

[Couver]

Yep having been screwed by someone’s financial fuckery I had a house guest I didn’t want but they were here anyway. Lucky the bill got paid and the power got turned back on…. I could not stand by and see someone have to live with no a/c in this heat. Just sucks I paid their bill 2 months ago and they still could not get it done….