How would you handle this

[GrayStangGT]

What kind of dirt am I suppose to have on her? LOL!!! I don't know her. I probably shouldn't have even said that.

I'm doing good for myself. I turn 23 in a month and I've got a decent house I love along with two great dogs that I care for daily and I've got 4 vehicles along with a good job providing me with everything. I'm doing well off for having a criminal record and no education. Keep talking shit though if it makes you happy.

I guess some people have a different definition of doing good for themselves. I only had 3 cars at 23, but all of them ran as they were intended to, I had graduated college and was saving up to buy a house. In contrast your life sounds like a complete clusterfuck from what you have posted on here lol.

[Treasure Chest]

I am fucking amazed at some people I considered to have a good head on their shoulders. I hope a lot of you don't have kids. And i know some of you do. My kid will be footing the tax bill for your irresponsible children. Lovely. Let me say a sarcastic thank you on his behalf.


Not old enough to have a dog? Be responsible for a pet? At fucking 9? Much less 11? He doesn't need to know it's his fault? Kim, are you high? I was castrating bulls at 7. Killing cattle, chickens, other livestock, etc. Nine is plenty old. Much less 11.


If this was me in this situation, I'd whip his ass. He'd be digging the hole, he'd be burying the dog in the hole with no gloves. And hed know damn well the dog dying was HIS fault. Fuck playing pass the buck. Yes, you both share some responsibility as the child's parents. But if you let him think or one second, that it wasnt his fault, its a wasted opportunity to teach responsiility. And all youllget from that point on is the blame game. That teacher just didnt like me, i forgot, its Jimmy's fault, etc. Shut up, suck it up, an sack up. The kid is about to hit his teenage years. You best teach him while you can. His mother and I would cease our relationship, because she sounds like a lazy irresponsible bitch. I never would have been in this situation to begin with.

I grew up on a farm, so I get where you're coming from. By 11, I knew the dangers of extreme temps, our working dogs stayed outside, but they had the run of 50+ acres with access to multiple fresh watering options, in addition to ponds and creeks to cool off in, barns to nap in, and sheds to dig under. The barns had autofilled troughs, mineral licks, and we kept a close eye on everything throughout the day. The difference is that we were raised with very specific instruction on the animals in our care. It doesn't sound like this kid has. Had he maliciously killed the animal, locked it in a shed, or neglected it for days, I'd agree with you entirely. Given the situation and that he was allegedly given instructions from his mom, after a call with SEB, I respectfully disagree.
With the information provided, I have a hard time believing she gave him clear instruction as soon as the phone call ended. If she said anything, it was probably as an afterthought, and by that time, it was already too late.

[papapepper]

I guess some people have a different definition of doing good for themselves. I only had 3 cars at 23, but all of them ran as they were intended to, I had graduated college and was saving up to buy a house. In contrast your life sounds like a complete clusterfuck from what you have posted on here lol.

I guess.... No parents and out the house by 13 years old so that explains the school. Eventually when I've got the money I plan on getting my degree in Mechanical Engineering. You? I'm actually saving up to buy a house now and get out of the situation that I'm in. I could be a lot worse off, IMO. I've got a pretty good head on my shoulders.

The cars do run for what they are intended for.

Fiesta is my daily driver which I commute 5-7 days a week to work.

79 pick up is a farm truck and also my first vehicle that I bought that'll make it thru just about any obstacle you put in front of it! haha.

79 T/A is my dads first car and I haven't decided what I'll do with it yet.

The newer truck I have just to have though.... Guess it's not really being "used" at the moment.

The dirtbikes, 4wheeler & 3wheelers are all used fully.

[kingjason]

I guess.... No parents and out the house by 13 years old so that explains the school. Eventually when I've got the money I plan on getting my degree in Mechanical Engineering. You? I'm actually saving up to buy a house now and get out of the situation that I'm in. I could be a lot worse off, IMO. I've got a pretty good head on my shoulders.

The cars do run for what they are intended for.

Fiesta is my daily driver which I commute 5-7 days a week to work.

79 pick up is a farm truck and also my first vehicle that I bought that'll make it thru just about any obstacle you put in front of it! haha.

79 T/A is my dads first car and I haven't decided what I'll do with it yet.

The newer truck I have just to have though.... Guess it's not really being "used" at the moment.

The dirtbikes, 4wheeler & 3wheelers are all used fully.

Wait what? Did you say 79 TA? One of my top 5 I have ever owned that I restored. You should give it to me and that will help you with that little issue. LOL

[papapepper]

Wait what? Did you say 79 TA? One of my top 5 I have ever owned that I restored. You should give it to me and that will help you with that little issue. LOL

79' T/A 10th ann. 400 t-tops 4-speed manual silver with the bird on the hood ram air.... etc... all 10th ann. badges grey leather.

It is my dads first car.... One owner all original miles. It's like driving a boat.

[AdamLX]

What kind of dirt am I suppose to have on her? LOL!!! I don't know her. I probably shouldn't have even said that.

I'm doing good for myself. I turn 23 in a month and I've got a decent house I love along with two great dogs that I care for daily and I've got 4 vehicles along with a good job providing me with everything. I'm doing well off for having a criminal record and no education. Keep talking shit though if it makes you happy.

You split the rent on a "decent" house, your landlord "got the house".

Four vehicles, of which two were on a farm in a previous post and not running and one of which was your dad's so I don't see how that even matters? Solid barg should be on things you actually own or bought maybe?

EDIT: I guess the TA is your dad's still since you just said it's his first car and one owner.

79' T/A 10th ann. 400 t-tops 4-speed manual silver with the bird on the hood ram air.... etc... all 10th ann. badges grey leather.

It is my dads first car.... One owner all original miles. It's like driving a boat.

derailment

[94form2000z]

do NOT put this on that child no matter what.... he's fucking NINE man....

Yes you told him, but ultimately YOU are responsible for everything living and breathing in that home...not a child. YOU should have made sure the dog was being taken care of properly.

I haven't read through all of this but I was thinking this when I came across it.
He is to young for one to expect him to completely do what you asked of him. He would've been reminded repeatedly and I would of likely have watched him do it to make sure it was done.

Either way no judgment here and just another reason I have no pets. Good luck.

[Rick Modena]

Give him a 15 day suspension w/ NO PAY!

Are you some kind of animal, I agree with the 15 day suspension but cmon, give him PAY!

You didn't ever say he was stiff with his eyes open, take him and mount him to a piece of plywood and he'll be good as new.

lmao!

this country is fucked..........next thing you know these little fags will have to wear a helmet when they ride a bike, oh wait.

lmao, again!

If this was me in this situation, I'd whip his ass. He'd be digging the hole, he'd be burying the dog in the hole with no gloves. And hed know damn well the dog dying was HIS fault. Fuck playing pass the buck. Yes, you both share some responsibility as the child's parents. But if you let him think or one second, that it wasnt his fault, its a wasted opportunity to teach responsiility. And all youllget from that point on is the blame game. That teacher just didnt like me, i forgot, its Jimmy's fault, etc. Shut up, suck it up, an sack up. The kid is about to hit his teenage years. You best teach him while you can. His mother and I would cease our relationship, because she sounds like a lazy irresponsible bitch. I never would have been in this situation to begin with.

Finally, the voice of reason.

[papapepper]

You split the rent on a "decent" house, your landlord "got the house".

Four vehicles, of which two were on a farm in a previous post and not running and one of which was your dad's so I don't see how that even matters? Solid barg should be on things you actually own or bought maybe?

EDIT: I guess the TA is your dad's still since you just said it's his first car and one owner.



derailment

You just like to make everything difficult.... Why? The only thing I currently have of my dads is his bass cat pro boat.

The only vehicle on the farm is the 79 ford.... That truck would SUCK in the city or even parked out front of my house. Fucking idiot Adam LX you are. Also registration and tags are not up to date.

Again, none of them are my dads. Where did you find this information. The T/A has one owner guess two now if you count me in but I haven't really screwed with it so technically just one owner I'd say.

Like I said in a previous post which your reading skills owned you. I'm saving up for a house to get out of the situation that I'm in now. Until then I'm perfectly fine where I'm at. No rush but I'm constantly putting money back.

[stevo]

Where did you find this information.

Hilarity.

Stevo

[AdamLX]

Again, none of them are my dads. Where did you find this information. The T/A has one owner guess two now if you count me in but I haven't really screwed with it so technically just one owner I'd say.

I got it about 10 minutes ago from this...

79' T/A 10th ann. 400 t-tops 4-speed manual silver with the bird on the hood ram air.... etc... all 10th ann. badges grey leather.

It is my dads first car.... One owner all original miles. It's like driving a boat.

Context clues are bolded to help you out.

If you could find a common theme to your sold bargs then I wouldn't have to take everything at face value and I could infer what you are getting at, but with everything changing you just bring it on yourself.

further derailment

[Leah]

I was castrating bulls at 7. Killing cattle, chickens, other livestock, etc. Nine is plenty old. Much less 11.

This actually explains a lot.

[papapepper]

I got it about 10 minutes ago from this...


Context clues are bolded to help you out.

If you could find a common theme to your sold bargs then I wouldn't have to take everything at face value and I could infer what you are getting at, but with everything changing you just bring it on yourself.

further derailment

Alright from your point of view. You have never touched the car but a few times since the car being yours. The car has been owned for about 32 years by one owner. Maybe a year if that since I've taken the car, again I've only touched it a few times. So technically two owners but I think you can comprehend what I'm getting at.


FWIW, just keep living in the past and bringing old threads back from the dead because you've obviously got nothing better to do with your time. I'll keep derailing every single thread on this forum if that is what you want.

[Grimpala]

Alright from your point of view. You have never touched the car but a few times since the car being yours. The car has been owned for about 32 years by one owner. Maybe a year if that since I've taken the car, again I've only touched it a few times. So technically two owners but I think you can comprehend what I'm getting at.


FWIW, just keep living in the past and bringing old threads back from the dead because you've obviously got nothing better to do with your time. I'll keep derailing every single thread on this forum if that is what you want.

Who name is on the title?

[papapepper]

Who name is on the title?

My dad until he dies. My older brother was shitty and screwed him out of 10 thousand for a brand new CBR 1000 so my dad is holding off on the title in case I happen to fuck him over.


Doesn't mean much though.... My first car my grandmas name was on the title although I drove it daily and she never touched it while I payed for it and insurance.