Sick to my stomach........wife left me today.

[racrguy]

Levi, if you lose the ability to be the man and are always groveling at her feet, she'll lose respect for you and keep you miserable but 'around'. Find the ability to be happy on your own. Tying your happiness to a woman will lead you to a place of misery.

I would suggest buying a wolf tshirt for self empowerment.

Truth has been spoken here.

I've had people look at me like I'm crazy when I tell them the same thing. I don't get it.

[SMKR]

I take it you like uncut guys then?

No, I just know what he is going through and will do anything I can to be there for him and to prevent him from taking his own life as situations like this coupled with severe depression can be a catalyst to suicide.

[davbrucas]

No, I just know what he is going through and will do anything I can to be there for him and to prevent him from taking his own life as situations like this coupled with severe depression can be a catalyst to suicide.

Youre so sweet and caring.

[Silverback]

Some men are just born to be pussies. Not saying Levi is as I dont know him. But I have some friends whose identities are tied up into their spouse's. Ridiculous.

true story

Levi, one issue that may come up here is that she doesn't want the "new" you. She wants the guy you were when you first met, the guy she fell for, etc. If you don't know who that is, you may want to look long and hard at yourself and even see if it's possible to be that guy Levi.

When my fiance and I ended it the last time, I knew I wasn't the guy she wanted anymore, the guy she met had changed and the woman I met and fell for wasn't there anymore either. No hard feelings from my end, but you'd think I stepped on her dog and kicked her pregnant sister in the stomach the way she talks about me now.

Good luck, but make sure you're mentally able to take whatever happens before you jump in trying to fix something that could possibly not be fixable. There's always a healthy way to deal with problems in your life, I hope you find your healthy outlet.

And for what it's worth, you can always shoot me a PM and get a completely open, honest, and jaded opinion on things

[talisman]

true story

Levi, one issue that may come up here is that she doesn't want the "new" you. She wants the guy you were when you first met, the guy she fell for, etc. If you don't know who that is, you may want to look long and hard at yourself and even see if it's possible to be that guy Levi.

When my fiance and I ended it the last time, I knew I wasn't the guy she wanted anymore, the guy she met had changed and the woman I met and fell for wasn't there anymore either. No hard feelings from my end, but you'd think I stepped on her dog and kicked her pregnant sister in the stomach the way she talks about me now.

Good luck, but make sure you're mentally able to take whatever happens before you jump in trying to fix something that could possibly not be fixable. There's always a healthy way to deal with problems in your life, I hope you find your healthy outlet.

And for what it's worth, you can always shoot me a PM and get a completely open, honest, and jaded opinion on things

Good advice.

[WildBill]

Levi, you need to get your ass back and figure this out with her face to face... and stay calm and cool. It's not a pussy move. It's a display of how important she and the kids are.

Check your pride at the door, find out what is bugging her, help her with whatever is bugging and let her come to the realization that you took care of business the way she needed you to.

Don't ever force the issue of her not wanting this, just help her return to where she needs to be and let her tell you it's OK.

Last of all, give full attention and love to those kiddos!!!

You've got your work cut out for you, but if you think it's worth fighting for, it's a piece of cake.

Damn good advice, but not a piece of cake for Levi..............maybe an all day sucker.

I think you need to make your very best constructive effort to make it work.

But, I also know from experience that you'll most likely be doing it for yourself. This way, you'll always be able to look back and know that you did what you could.

And then get on with the moving on.

Don't hold out too much hope for too long. That shit will run you and ruin you. And as crazy as it is, the chances of her coming back to you are probably higher once you've moved on.

Oh, and sorry to hear it man. Good luck to you.

Yup.......no "What ifs"

You need to realize that the only person that holds the key to your happiness is you. Just be the best person you can be and things will work out in the end. .

Too bad most women don't understand that key to happiness.

We talked today and she decided to give us another chance to really start over and get to know each other once and for all.

Thank you for all of the kind words and advice. I can always count on you.
Thank you again

Well Levi
It's good to hear that you both agree to make another go of things. Sometimes it takes a real shake up to realize what's actually important in life. Hopefully both of you realize this and both make moves to correct the past problems. That's not to say that you guys need to concentrate on the past problems. You both need to identify and acknowledge those problems and vow to do your best not to fall into the same faults. Both of you are human and may backslide. You both need to agree to be able to go to each other in a non-accusatory fashion and express your feeling openly about current problems.
Once you guys realize where each of your problems lay, that's half the battle. By both of you agreeing to concentrate and working on your own problems, both of you can equally do those little things that makes married life worthwhile.

Good luck man!

[WildBill]

Youre so sweet and caring.

davbrucas.................the new Taliwhacker!

[talisman]

davbrucas.................the new Taliwhacker!

Mild Bill. Still the same old bumbling fuckwad.

[SVT Lurch]

Sorry to hear that, I hope it works out for you and your family. If not at least you got funny stuff like this to read (always a silver lining):

if you can wake up in the morning with someone that smiles back at you, you have won the game.

Hell Mike, at your age just waking up of a morning is a miracle in it's self !

Mild Bill. Still the same old bumbling fuckwad.

[SS Junk]

Not sure if this has been said, but two key ingredients you need in any relationship is unity and agreement. You cannot have a successful relationship without them. Best of luck.

[WildBill]

Taliwhacker............the same stupid bitter cunt as always.

Even as screwy as Levi can be at times, he has enough sense not to follow bitter 5-head's advice.

[talisman]

Taliwhacker............the same stupid bitter cunt as always.

Even as screwy as Levi can be at times, he has enough sense not to follow bitter 5-head's advice.

Awwww, did you finally take me off ignore, sweetie?

[davbrucas]

davbrucas.................the new Taliwhacker!

Nah...my view of the world isnt quite that warped and my vocabulary isnt quite that expanded. But thanks for the compliment.

[Zfan]

We talked today and she decided to give us another chance to really start over and get to know each other once and for all.

Thank you for all of the kind words and advice. I can always count on you.
Thank you again

Awsome news, the best of luck to you two!

[talisman]

Nah...my view of the world isnt quite that warped and my vocabulary isnt quite that expanded. But thanks for the compliment.

You're a class act, Doctor.