Sick to my stomach........wife left me today.

[347Mike]

I would say give it more time but two weeks seems decent.

I would go back home, don't bring it up, don't be overly nice, don't be a douche, just be normal, do your thing and see what happens. Act like it never happen.

[Stunter Bob]

Buddy I am very sorry to hear your bad news, that is a real shitty feeling.

Things always happen for a reason and everyone going to tell you they will get better, and it will over time.

On a side note...

At least you didn't make her a rose!

[talisman]

I would go back home, don't bring it up, don't be overly nice, don't be a douche, just be normal, do your thing and see what happens. Act like it never happen.

Passive aggression puts her in the power position. Fuck that. Change all passwords, pull as much out of the accounts as you can, cancel anything you help pay for that goes in her favor(her car insurance, etc), and start building your war machine. She already has a head start, and she has already moved. Her decision is made.

[347Mike]

Passive aggression puts her in the power position. Fuck that. Change all passwords, pull as much out of the accounts as you can, cancel anything you help pay for that goes in her favor(her car insurance, etc), and start building your war machine. She already has a head start, and she has already moved. Her decision is made.

It sounded like he was wanting her back so that was my advice. If he made a thread about not giving a shit and didn't want to stay with her then yeah I would say post something of the like.

I don't see how ignoring her or not addressing it until she says something is putting the power in her favor. Bringing it up sure isn't going to fix it.. Besides, he can still do all of those things and not address it.

[talisman]

It sounded like he was wanting her back so that was my advice. If he made a thread about not giving a shit and didn't want to stay with her then yeah I would say post something of the like.

I don't see how ignoring her or not addressing it until she says something is putting the power in her favor. Bringing it up sure isn't going to fix it.. Besides, he can still do all of those things and not address it.

Wanting her back is a gut reaction that over rides the primary male function, which is logic.

I'm not even going to say anything about that second paragraph, holy shit, I hope you get your ovaries checked regularly.

[347Mike]

Wanting her back is a gut reaction that over rides the primary male function, which is logic.

I'm not even going to say anything about that second paragraph, holy shit, I hope you get your ovaries checked regularly.

You're not going to say anything but you are going to insinuate by some lame ass joke? I don't need anything checked, my head and logic are both sound. Just because my thought process differs from yours doesn't exclude it.

[kingjason]

Passive aggression puts her in the power position. Fuck that. Change all passwords, pull as much out of the accounts as you can, cancel anything you help pay for that goes in her favor(her car insurance, etc), and start building your war machine. She already has a head start, and she has already moved. Her decision is made.

This guy knows.

Luckly when I went thru the big D 5 years ago all my cop buddies were well versed in the subject. I got a slow start but caught up quick.

[Cobraman]

That really sucks man.

[talisman]

You're not going to say anything but you are going to insinuate by some lame ass joke? I don't need anything checked, my head and logic are both sound. Just because my thought process differs from yours doesn't exclude it.

Great logic. "I'll stick my head in the sand and pretend nothing is wrong." Com'on, man. For gods sake..

[Strychnine]

I'll prob be in Houston in a week or two for work; we'll grab a beer while I'm there. Keep your head up... there's a lot of assholes around here who've got your back.

[talisman]

I've got some med stuff going on right now (way too many blood draws and dr appts lately)... I couldn't imagine my fiancée bailing on me right now

I'll prob be in Houston in a week or two. We'll grab a beer while I'm there. Keep your head up... there's a lot of assholes around here who've got your back.

Spenser just texted me and said he has his front...

[kingjason]

You know there are just things in a relationship that cannot be un heard. Sometimes it is for the best that people go their seperate ways. My ex said some shit to me that would never be repaired so even though I hated getting a divorce it was the best thing that ever happened to me. My current wife is fannnnnnnntastic, good looking, and has the same twisted, fucked up sense of humor I do. We are quiet the pair. She even knows if someone ever sets me off enough somewhere to run and get the get away car. LOL

Learn from your mistakes and hers and move on.

Keep your head up it will get better, it always does.

[347Mike]

Of course you want to take precautions, but I was referring to the actual bringing it up part and turning it into an argument.....

[Mysticcobrakilla]

Passive aggression puts her in the power position. Fuck that. Change all passwords, pull as much out of the accounts as you can, cancel anything you help pay for that goes in her favor(her car insurance, etc), and start building your war machine. She already has a head start, and she has already moved. Her decision is made.

Read this post over and over.... This man speaks the truth!

[Denny]

Levi, you need to get your ass back and figure this out with her face to face... and stay calm and cool. It's not a pussy move. It's a display of how important she and the kids are.

Check your pride at the door, find out what is bugging her, help her with whatever is bugging and let her come to the realization that you took care of business the way she needed you to.

Don't ever force the issue of her not wanting this, just help her return to where she needs to be and let her tell you it's OK.

Last of all, give full attention and love to those kiddos!!!

You've got your work cut out for you, but if you think it's worth fighting for, it's a piece of cake.