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Sick to my stomach........wife left me today.
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Shit man, I'm sorry to hear that. I know you sacrificed a lot to make it all work.
But don't go nuts. It's not the end of the world. You have your friends. If you need someone to talk to about moving on after a long painful breakup, give my dad a shout. He's had three kids with three different women, the dumbass.
And OF COURSE you can hit me up anytime my nigg... hell, I miss ya anyway. Tell Houston to fuck off and come on back home.When the government pays, the government controls.
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Originally posted by Denny View PostLevi, you need to get your ass back and figure this out with her face to face... and stay calm and cool. It's not a pussy move. It's a display of how important she and the kids are.
Check your pride at the door, find out what is bugging her, help her with whatever is bugging and let her come to the realization that you took care of business the way she needed you to.
Don't ever force the issue of her not wanting this, just help her return to where she needs to be and let her tell you it's OK.
Last of all, give full attention and love to those kiddos!!!
You've got your work cut out for you, but if you think it's worth fighting for, it's a piece of cake.
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Originally posted by Denny View PostLevi, you need to get your ass back and figure this out with her face to face... and stay calm and cool. It's not a pussy move. It's a display of how important she and the kids are.
Check your pride at the door, find out what is bugging her, help her with whatever is bugging and let her come to the realization that you took care of business the way she needed you to.
Don't ever force the issue of her not wanting this, just help her return to where she needs to be and let her tell you it's OK.
Last of all, give full attention and love to those kiddos!!!
You've got your work cut out for you, but if you think it's worth fighting for, it's a piece of cake.first class white trash
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I think you need to make your very best constructive effort to make it work.
But, I also know from experience that you'll most likely be doing it for yourself. This way, you'll always be able to look back and know that you did what you could.
And then get on with the moving on.
Don't hold out too much hope for too long. That shit will run you and ruin you. And as crazy as it is, the chances of her coming back to you are probably higher once you've moved on.
Oh, and sorry to hear it man. Good luck to you.Last edited by jluv; 07-14-2011, 07:26 PM.
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Originally posted by jluv View PostI think you need to make your very best constructive effort to make it work.
But, I also know from experience that you'll most likely be doing it for yourself. This way, you'll always be able to look back and know that you did what you could.
And then get on with the moving on.
Don't hold out too much hope for too long. That shit will run you and ruin you. And as crazy as it is, the chances of her coming back to you are probably higher once you've moved on.
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Originally posted by jluv View PostI think you need to make your very best constructive effort to make it work.
But, I also know from experience that you'll most likely be doing it for yourself. This way, you'll always be able to look back and know that you did what you could.
And then get on with the moving on.
Don't hold out too much hope for too long. That shit will run you and ruin you. And as crazy as it is, the chances of her coming back to you are probably higher once you've moved on.
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You are always good with words, but the last two sentences is what I was trying to get across. May not have said that, but thats where I was aiming.Originally posted by Cmarsh93zDon't Fuck with DFWmustangs...the most powerfull gang I have ever been a member of.
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Sorry to hear that Levi. Its a tragedy of human nature when those of us who are capable of changing ourselves for the better, not only for ourselves but for those who matter most, get pushed to the side by those in-capable of change or seeing change in others.
I'm not trying to put myself in your shoes, simply to relate. I've never been married and I don't have any kids. But I've been with a woman or two who I thought was worth keeping for the long run. Both of those relationships had some early trials and tribulations, a lot on my part. I made the changes and sacrifices in my life to show them that I can and would be the person that they wanted, the person they needed. They were never capable of seeing that change. Women have a switch, they can hit it at ANY point in time. They can turn off love and emotion with that switch, and once its off, its not coming back on!
With all of that said, all you can do is give it everything its got. When you decide to go that route, you've got to realize when its not working and walk away. Otherwise your depression will only get worse. I am now in a relationship with an amazing woman. Someone I don't have to take care of. Someone who takes care of me. Someone who shares my same passion for life, finishes my sentences, and makes the same jokes as me. Life has never been better.
I've never met you, and you may not take what I say with a grain of salt. But I've been around the board for a few years. You seem like a person who lives life, not one that just walks aimlessly hoping for the best. I wish you the best with your depression and bi-polar issue. As well as the best with the wife and kids. Like so many that have mentioned it here, pay attention to those kiddos. My mom and dad split when I was 5. I know that I have cherished every moment I spend and have ever spent with my father.Originally posted by LeahBest balls I've had in my mouth in a while.
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Originally posted by Leah View PostOh Levi, I'm so sorry! Keep your head up. I don't know what is in the air lately, but I've had several friends who recently split with their SO.
I came close...
Sorry to hear it cantdrive55.
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Originally posted by Denny View PostLevi, you need to get your ass back and figure this out with her face to face... and stay calm and cool. It's not a pussy move. It's a display of how important she and the kids are.
Check your pride at the door, find out what is bugging her, help her with whatever is bugging and let her come to the realization that you took care of business the way she needed you to.
Don't ever force the issue of her not wanting this, just help her return to where she needs to be and let her tell you it's OK.
Last of all, give full attention and love to those kiddos!!!
You've got your work cut out for you, but if you think it's worth fighting for, it's a piece of cake.
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