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  • #31
    Originally posted by kingjason View Post
    You know there are just things in a relationship that cannot be un heard. Sometimes it is for the best that people go their seperate ways. My ex said some shit to me that would never be repaired so even though I hated getting a divorce it was the best thing that ever happened to me.

    Learn from your mistakes and hers and move on.

    Keep your head up it will get better, it always does.
    Well said.
    Originally posted by BradM
    But, just like condoms and women's rights, I don't believe in them.
    Originally posted by Leah
    In other news: Brent's meat melts in your mouth.

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    • #32
      Shit man, I'm sorry to hear that. I know you sacrificed a lot to make it all work.

      But don't go nuts. It's not the end of the world. You have your friends. If you need someone to talk to about moving on after a long painful breakup, give my dad a shout. He's had three kids with three different women, the dumbass.

      And OF COURSE you can hit me up anytime my nigg... hell, I miss ya anyway. Tell Houston to fuck off and come on back home.
      When the government pays, the government controls.

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      • #33
        for what it's worth, my wife had some problems after her sister died. we ended up divorced and was that way for 2 years, we are back together and life has never been greater
        first class white trash

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        • #34
          Done been through that 3 times and with kids involved every time. If ya need someone to hang out with hollar.

          I don't think I have it in me to go through it again.

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          • #35
            Originally posted by Denny View Post
            Levi, you need to get your ass back and figure this out with her face to face... and stay calm and cool. It's not a pussy move. It's a display of how important she and the kids are.

            Check your pride at the door, find out what is bugging her, help her with whatever is bugging and let her come to the realization that you took care of business the way she needed you to.

            Don't ever force the issue of her not wanting this, just help her return to where she needs to be and let her tell you it's OK.

            Last of all, give full attention and love to those kiddos!!!

            You've got your work cut out for you, but if you think it's worth fighting for, it's a piece of cake.
            VERY well said Denny!

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            • #36
              Originally posted by Denny View Post
              Levi, you need to get your ass back and figure this out with her face to face... and stay calm and cool. It's not a pussy move. It's a display of how important she and the kids are.

              Check your pride at the door, find out what is bugging her, help her with whatever is bugging and let her come to the realization that you took care of business the way she needed you to.

              Don't ever force the issue of her not wanting this, just help her return to where she needs to be and let her tell you it's OK.

              Last of all, give full attention and love to those kiddos!!!

              You've got your work cut out for you, but if you think it's worth fighting for, it's a piece of cake.
              best advice of the year right there....
              first class white trash

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              • #37
                Why in gods name would you stop taking your meds? God bless!!

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                • #38
                  I think you need to make your very best constructive effort to make it work.

                  But, I also know from experience that you'll most likely be doing it for yourself. This way, you'll always be able to look back and know that you did what you could.

                  And then get on with the moving on.

                  Don't hold out too much hope for too long. That shit will run you and ruin you. And as crazy as it is, the chances of her coming back to you are probably higher once you've moved on.

                  Oh, and sorry to hear it man. Good luck to you.
                  Last edited by jluv; 07-14-2011, 07:26 PM.

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                  • #39
                    Originally posted by jluv View Post
                    I think you need to make your very best constructive effort to make it work.

                    But, I also know from experience that you'll most likely be doing it for yourself. This way, you'll always be able to look back and know that you did what you could.

                    And then get on with the moving on.

                    Don't hold out too much hope for too long. That shit will run you and ruin you. And as crazy as it is, the chances of her coming back to you are probably higher once you've moved on.

                    Church!

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                    • #40
                      Originally posted by jluv View Post
                      I think you need to make your very best constructive effort to make it work.

                      But, I also know from experience that you'll most likely be doing it for yourself. This way, you'll always be able to look back and know that you did what you could.

                      And then get on with the moving on.

                      Don't hold out too much hope for too long. That shit will run you and ruin you. And as crazy as it is, the chances of her coming back to you are probably higher once you've moved on.

                      x2
                      You are always good with words, but the last two sentences is what I was trying to get across. May not have said that, but thats where I was aiming.
                      Originally posted by Cmarsh93z
                      Don't Fuck with DFWmustangs...the most powerfull gang I have ever been a member of.

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                      • #41
                        Sorry to hear that Levi.

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                        • #42
                          Originally posted by Jester View Post
                          ...she doesnt feel anything for me any more...
                          This says it all...follow Eric's advice.

                          Oh, and I thought of this when I first read your comments.

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                          • #43
                            Sorry to hear that Levi. Its a tragedy of human nature when those of us who are capable of changing ourselves for the better, not only for ourselves but for those who matter most, get pushed to the side by those in-capable of change or seeing change in others.

                            I'm not trying to put myself in your shoes, simply to relate. I've never been married and I don't have any kids. But I've been with a woman or two who I thought was worth keeping for the long run. Both of those relationships had some early trials and tribulations, a lot on my part. I made the changes and sacrifices in my life to show them that I can and would be the person that they wanted, the person they needed. They were never capable of seeing that change. Women have a switch, they can hit it at ANY point in time. They can turn off love and emotion with that switch, and once its off, its not coming back on!

                            With all of that said, all you can do is give it everything its got. When you decide to go that route, you've got to realize when its not working and walk away. Otherwise your depression will only get worse. I am now in a relationship with an amazing woman. Someone I don't have to take care of. Someone who takes care of me. Someone who shares my same passion for life, finishes my sentences, and makes the same jokes as me. Life has never been better.

                            I've never met you, and you may not take what I say with a grain of salt. But I've been around the board for a few years. You seem like a person who lives life, not one that just walks aimlessly hoping for the best. I wish you the best with your depression and bi-polar issue. As well as the best with the wife and kids. Like so many that have mentioned it here, pay attention to those kiddos. My mom and dad split when I was 5. I know that I have cherished every moment I spend and have ever spent with my father.
                            Originally posted by Leah
                            Best balls I've had in my mouth in a while.

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                            • #44
                              Originally posted by Leah View Post
                              Oh Levi, I'm so sorry! Keep your head up. I don't know what is in the air lately, but I've had several friends who recently split with their SO.

                              I came close...


                              Sorry to hear it cantdrive55.
                              www.allforoneroofing.com

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                              • #45
                                Originally posted by Denny View Post
                                Levi, you need to get your ass back and figure this out with her face to face... and stay calm and cool. It's not a pussy move. It's a display of how important she and the kids are.

                                Check your pride at the door, find out what is bugging her, help her with whatever is bugging and let her come to the realization that you took care of business the way she needed you to.

                                Don't ever force the issue of her not wanting this, just help her return to where she needs to be and let her tell you it's OK.

                                Last of all, give full attention and love to those kiddos!!!

                                You've got your work cut out for you, but if you think it's worth fighting for, it's a piece of cake.
                                Man, I so wish my parents would have done this. Good luck Jester, keep strong and keep progessing. Don't let the outcome turn the direction you have been in, you inproving yourself benifits yourself and people close to you.

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