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  • Sex education in school....How to talk to a 12 yr old ?

    Well I got the letter home last night that it's sex ed time in junior high for my 12 year old.

    It's an abstinence program that teaches about human anatomy but not about birth control / contraceptive devices.

    I haven't had "the talk" with my son about having sex yet but we have discussed human anatomy, the mechanics of the male and female reproductive system, our dog got pregnant which introduced the baby question & answer session, and of course we've discussed what it means to love someone and be married. I haven't discussed the actual deed though.

    From the fellas here... What are some ways "MOM" can possibly approach this where he isn't going to get all freaked the fuck out?

    I'm NOT going to leave it to this ONE class in school to educate my child on the most important and sacred part of being a responsible loving committed adult.

    Go ahead and knock out the smartassery too, but any helpful input would be greatly appreciated as well


    The only reason I ask here, is because it's a sea of sausages that were all 12 years old once, and you are all brutally honest on what a 12 yr old boy could be thinking / feeling.


    Funny fucking addition to the story... I asked my dad how I could approach the subject with my son... his answer "don't sweat it, let the schools teach him that stuff." I told him he belonged in a South Park episode and I have no idea how I held off having children until age 21 with suggestions like that LOL!!! (BTW, he knew I was just giving him a hard time)
    Originally posted by Vertnut
    I'd run my junk through a waffle iron, if it makes you more "comfortable". LOL!

  • #2
    Buy him a stack of porn and lock him in his room, he'll figure it out.

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    • #3
      Teach him how to wrap it. He's almost the age of getting at it. Abstinence is bs.

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      • #4
        good luck kim. i have no idea.

        god bless.
        It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men -Frederick Douglass

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        • #5
          Originally posted by Ruffdaddy View Post
          Teach him how to wrap it. He's almost the age of getting at it. Abstinence is bs.
          Who taught you how to wrap it? What did they say ? Did you have to figure that out for yourself too or what?


          Honest questions, I promise....
          Originally posted by Vertnut
          I'd run my junk through a waffle iron, if it makes you more "comfortable". LOL!

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          • #6
            Originally posted by ELVIS View Post
            good luck kim. i have no idea.

            god bless.
            Paul still doesn't know what a vagina looks like

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            • #7
              Originally posted by Silverback View Post
              Paul still doesn't know what a vagina looks like
              yes i do. geor had those short shorts on last night. his vagina kept winking at me.

              god bless.
              It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men -Frederick Douglass

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              • #8
                Originally posted by ELVIS View Post
                yes i do. geor had those short shorts on last night. his vagina kept winking at me.

                god bless.
                Did you poke at it with all that black you've got in the middle? LOL!
                Originally posted by Vertnut
                I'd run my junk through a waffle iron, if it makes you more "comfortable". LOL!

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by MutherjuggZ View Post
                  From the fellas here... What are some ways "MOM" can possibly approach this where he isn't going to get all freaked the fuck out?
                  Freak him out. Maybe it'll stop him from trying it out for a while. Of course he'll probably develop some weird fetish, but you shouldn't feel responsible when he starts meeting people wearing animal costumes and getting in the pile.
                  .

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                  • #10
                    Why not just sit down with him and say, "they are going to be teaching sex education at school, and i wanted you to know that you can come ask me any questions you may have, before or after. Nothing is off limits, and we can talk about anything you like."

                    Maybe just taking an honest approach will also allow him to feel comfortable coming to you later on in life with major questions/concerns... Like if he ever needs money when he knocks a chick up??

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                    • #11
                      Print out some posts from Lincolnboy, tell him if he has sex before 18 he could end up like that.

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by MutherjuggZ View Post
                        Who taught you how to wrap it? What did they say ? Did you have to figure that out for yourself too or what?


                        Honest questions, I promise....
                        My dad told me not to screw up and get a girl pregnant and to always use protection basically. Condoms aren't rocket science he should be able to figure out how to put it on himself.

                        Make it matter of fact like. Y'all with both feel weird but that's part o the humor. What killed me was my mom bitching about how it's wrong and shut. At that age I didn't give a shut what was considered wrong by adults.

                        Oh but definitely teach him the laws. Only thing not worth screwing around with.

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                        • #13
                          You should pull up every nasty image you can find on STDs, then describe in great detail what a bore punch is. After several hours of this - remind him the condoms can greatly reduce the risk of all of them, and that any good hooker will know how to put them with her mouth.

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                          • #14
                            I'll bring my herped out junk over and show it to him- that will learn him

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by ELVIS View Post
                              yes i do. geor had those short shorts on last night. his vagina kept winking at me.

                              god bless.
                              oh that's what you meant when you said you found bacon in your queso in the geocaching thread!

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