"Oh, and I have a kid"

[mstng86]

On the bright side I'm in no hurry to start anything serious, and probably won't be for awhile. Just taking it easy and going with the flow.

So what has Kim had to say about that? Having a baby isn't "serious" enough for you?

[Hobie]

So I guess you are mostly dating younger chicks?

I prefer women from 25-30, but I don't have a firm age requirement or anything. There are plenty of women my own age that don't have children.

I just won't date women with kids. If someone else wants to that's fine, but it's not for me.

[talisman]

So what has Kim had to say about that? Having a baby isn't "serious" enough for you?

Shut up, newb.

[Treasure Chest]

Well that is a different way of looking at it. LOL

It's pretty standard formula for getting rid of young punks and douche bags looking to get laid.

I like sports, but refused to pay for cable, so I'd go to a sports bar, sit at the bar, have a beer, and watch the game. I'll converse with anyone that can hold an intelligent conversation, but if he's an idiot, or seemed like he's positioning himself to close the deal, smiling sweetly and saying, 'By the way, I have three kids,' is a beautiful way to shut things down without being a total bitch.

The only time it doesn't work is when he is an indiscriminate breeder who has a passel of brats and baby mamas or he's a cocky bastard that didn't grasp the concept of a woman who's not in a bar to get laid.

[347Mike]

If a man is looking for a lay, what the hell difference does it make if they have kids? lol

[CexMashean]

It's pretty standard formula for getting rid of young punks and douche bags looking to get laid.

I like sports, but refused to pay for cable, so I'd go to a sports bar, sit at the bar, have a beer, and watch the game. I'll converse with anyone that can hold an intelligent conversation, but if he's an idiot, or seemed like he's positioning himself to close the deal, smiling sweetly and saying, 'By the way, I have three kids,' is a beautiful way to shut things down without being a total bitch.

The only time it doesn't work is when he is an indiscriminate breeder who has a passel of brats and baby mamas or he's a cocky bastard that didn't grasp the concept of a woman who's not in a bar to get laid.

5 kids and single is enough to scare any man away, and it's not their fault for being scared away.

[SVTNorthTexas]

Shut up, newb.

[mstng86]

Shut up, newb.

[Treasure Chest]

5 kids and single is enough to scare any man away, and it's not their fault for being scared away.

Lol I guess that's the advantage of having three, it only scares most of them away.

[clevelandkid]

Holy fuck! There is a horse in the background!

And it has better teeth than the girl in the first pic!

[CJ]

Just tell her the judge said you can't be within 100 feet of a child.

[Treasure Chest]

If a man is looking for a lay, what the hell difference does it make if they have kids? lol

Apparently, it's more of a mental block for them, if they don't have any. I'm not sure if they just assume she's automatically going to be a stage 5 clinger, or what.

[Frank]

In my younger days during a dry spell, I met this girl...and her Mom...at a country bar. THAT should have been the first red flag....

So we kinda hit it off. She even mentions she has a kid, but that didn't really scare me away yet so I get her number. I call her a couple of days later, we talk a couple of times. Each time, its hard to talk because this kid which is about a year old, is screaming his head off at the top of his lungs. Still, I was dumb enough that I drove out to see her. She lived way out in Quinlan in some apartments with her Mama, and baby, and sister, and her stepsister which is her Mama's 9mo baby! :O So we're all just hanging out in the living room and her kid is sitting on the couch beside her screaming his head off at the top of his lungs crying. I knew nothing about kids then, but hindsight, that boy just wasn't right. Our visit was short. She tried to walk me out but had to carry the tyke or he would really have a fit. He acted like he had always been carried. He NEVER let up. Anyhow, I made nice and GTFO of there. I ran into her about a year later at the same club and talked a little. She tells me she now has another baby! She asks me "so would me having two babies run you off?" "I'm afraid I'm not ready for that." and that was the last I seen her. I couldn't get away fast enough.

[scootro]

it's better than hearing i have herpes from the girl

[Treasure Chest]

If the first red flag wasn't her being a second generation bar whore, it should have been meeting her kid before she got to know you.

My older sister is one of those girls. Nothing chapped my ass more than the number of guys my sister paraded in and out of my niece's life, followed up by her calling them daddy if the guy was dumb enough to stick around a week or more.