"Oh, and I have a kid"

[mustang_revival]

Good excuse for not closing the deal.

[Treasure Chest]

I think some of the tards here are forgetting WHY she said she has a kid. That in itself indicates she not just looking for a poke, she's looking for something long term. Why even begin that headache at 22?

That's not entirely true. There's a big difference between "I have a kid" and "I'm looking for a father for my kid."

[exlude]

Why back out? Tell her it's cool, validate her by talking about her kid a bit. Part of that conversation should figure out if she has to get back to that kid tonight. If not, just avoid taking her to your place.

[CexMashean]

That's not entirely true. There's a big difference between "I have a kid" and "I'm looking for a father for my kid."

it's entirely true, or she wouldn't have mentioned it. If she was looking for some fun and some dick, why would she mention she has a kid, knowing the impact it has on a single male at that age?

Woman was looking for something long term. Now, being the bastard I am, i would've pretended it didn't bother me, made her a slave to the pole, THEN run away.

[Grimpala]

DOHCTR = not a closer.

[LANTIRN]

I remember being single and was instantly turned off by a chick with a kid. There is one main reason for that; if you date her for a certain length of time a judge can rule that you are the closest thing to a father figure the kid has and force you to pay child support for a kid that isn't yours. Fucked up but I have heard of it happening; I have no proof but I have heard it often enough that I would never want to test the waters.

Anyway I'm married so it's a moot point for me now, but back when I single that was a terrifying thought.

[Treasure Chest]

it's entirely true, or she wouldn't have mentioned it. If she was looking for some fun and some dick, why would she mention she has a kid, knowing the impact it has on a single male at that age?

Woman was looking for something long term. Now, being the bastard I am, i would've pretended it didn't bother me, made her a slave to the pole, THEN run away.

It may have also been her way of getting rid of him.

[mustangguy289]

It may have also been her way of getting rid of him.

very true. But if you are a member of this website you are way to arrogant to realize this.

[mstng86]

It may have also been her way of getting rid of him.

Well that is a different way of looking at it. LOL

[lincolnboy]

Bake her a cake. She tell her you are pro-abortion. If your going to have a kid and no father for the kid in her life then abortion is the answer. I kidd I kidd. Don't run. Your not going to be taking the kid out on dated and poking the kid, its the mom you'll be doing that with. Good luck on finding a non-mom female @ the bar or non-alchies.

[stevo]

Probably what really happened is that she mentioned having a kid to gauge his reaction, he predictably acted like a little snot, she shot him down and walked away, and now he is trying to switch it up and whine about it in an effort to save his bruised ego.

Stevo

[GhostTX]

Probably what really happened is that she mentioned having a kid to gauge his reaction...

That's what I was thinking, actually.

At 22, I certainly wasn't looking for a relationship with a kid. A "fuck-token" though? Sheesh.

[99Shestang]

LOL... I never tell them about my 5 kids till the next morning before the walk of shame.

[Moose242]

That's what I was thinking, actually.

At 22, I certainly wasn't looking for a relationship with a kid. A "fuck-token" though? Sheesh.

Indeed. I am an ambitious young man with a lot of stuff going for me, and I am looking for a girl who isnt tied down in any way.

And there are too many girls at clubs to continue trying to make it with a single mom... especially when you have bottle service.

[CexMashean]

It may have also been her way of getting rid of him.

i'd imagine she would have been more forceful in saying it then, not trying to slip it past with "oh and i have a kid."

Bitch at a bar, by herself, and has a kid.. . . i don't think she's throwing away any dick that comes her way.