Would you be worried if your son did this?

[VaderTT]

sorry mal was a typo. It should have read grand anal.

God bless.

lmao!!

[DON SVO]

I understand that this is how it's been for generations upon generations in the past, but it's slowly changing. Either way, doesn't bother me. I'm gonna do what I'm gonna do, and my kids are gonna do what they're gonna do.

dude... it's not changing. You're confusing acceptance of homosexuality with reality regarding DNA, genomes, heredity and family history. That's like saying "the sky is blue" is slowly changing because someone feels better about calling the color blue "red". Carrying of the family blood line and factual heritage via last name (one simple example) is utterly terminated when the only son is gay and will not perpetuate that which is now lost. No amount of gay/lesbian feel-goodery is going to change reality, no matter how happy you are that your son likes Madonna, Liberace and having sex with men. Your family tree dies. Dead. Kaput. Finished.

[Ratt]

dude... it's not changing. You're confusing acceptance of homosexuality with reality regarding DNA, genomes, heredity and family history. That's like saying "the sky is blue" is slowly changing because someone feels better about calling the color blue "red". Carrying of the family blood line and factual heritage via last name (one simple example) is utterly terminated when the only son is gay and will not perpetuate that which is now lost. No amount of gay/lesbian feel-goodery is going to change reality, no matter how happy you are that your son likes Madonna, Liberace and having sex with men. Your family tree dies. Dead. Kaput. Finished.

I didn't realize that's where you were going with your argument. I offer you my apologies. I just meant that if DNA lineage Doesn't matter to you then why does it matter whether or not the kid is gay? Certainly doesn't bother me any. I'm no purebred, and I've married a Chinese woman, so if my son is gay and wants to, say, adopt because he can't have children biologically, then it's no skin off my back.

[DON SVO]

I didn't realize that's where you were going with your argument. I offer you my apologies. I just meant that if DNA lineage Doesn't matter to you then why does it matter whether or not the kid is gay? Certainly doesn't bother me any. I'm no purebred, and I've married a Chinese woman, so if my son is gay and wants to, say, adopt because he can't have children biologically, then it's no skin off my back.

People later on down the road trying to trace family history might object, other member of your family (past, present and future) may object. I can care less if my son/daughter is gay from the "OH EM GEE he gay!" shock stand point. However, since my mother spent years tabulating and collecting family history I also see where a strong, proud family could be seriously devastated by their heir-apparent being queer.

[Ratt]

People later on down the road trying to trace family history might object, other member of your family (past, present and future) may object. I can care less if my son/daughter is gay from the "OH EM GEE he gay!" shock stand point. However, since my mother spent years tabulating and collecting family history I also see where a strong, proud family could be seriously devastated by their heir-apparent being queer.

I get your point. I have traced my family back a long time, and was quite surprised to see where we actually came from. I'm related to the Anderson family on this list http://www.forttumbleweed.net/old300.html

[DON SVO]

I get your point. I have traced my family back a long time, and was quite surprised to see where we actually came from.

Yup. Hence why I could understand the disappointment in having a gay gay gay son.